I started shagging when i was 11, i was unmatured that time and enjoy doing it. when i was 17 i started watching blue flims. After watching the movies i really cant control myself and went for a shag, later on i had bad ideas on my dreams and then i had the problem of premature ejaculation. Now iam 24 iam married, at the time of doing sex i cant satisfy her, before i start the intercourse work, my sperm comes out, i really feel ashame of doing it.
i cant even face her and even she feels a lot about me. I really love her and want to satisfy her. I never want to hurt her, or make her feel like that. she is still happy with me and having a good trust on me. she is more interested in having love with me than just sex.
now iam in real trouble with this and very much ashamed of myself. i dont know wat will happen in the future.So i request everyone to please help me by your valuable suggestions say like any medicine or homeopathy that will help me. i dont want visit any doctor plz.
2007-03-15 19:50:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
When your penis is erect, and you feel like you're getting closer to climaxing, just stop. Apply gentle pressure to the head of your penis, squeezing it gently. You should be able to feel the blood flow outward, into the shaft. Then let go. The glans will return to the shape it was, before you applied pressure. REMEMBER: GENTLE PRESSURE IS ALL YOU NEED. If you feel pain, you're doing it too hard, or it's being done too hard. Then just relax for a minute or two. This helps you hold off, a bit longer.
Why are you calling intercourse, "work" ? That says that you are not in the right frame of mind.
2007-03-15 23:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather than me copying and pasting, look at this site: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Premature_ejaculation#Treatment
Also, not to be mean, but as an adult you should learn proper terms.(if english is your second language, i understand)
Shagging= Sex/ Sexual intercourse
unmature=immature
blue films=(I am assuming u mean Porn)Pornography
In most cases, the only treatment is with a doctor. You can try to learn to control it yourself, as it is usually with your mind.
2007-03-15 20:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry man...try out the methods on www.mistermanpower. They may help you.
2007-03-16 02:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by maneone22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop watching pornography and follow Islamic instruction..
2014-01-01 13:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you play,you pay
2007-03-16 07:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋