what what the toughest thing that you had to go through in your life ?
2007-03-15 19:41:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is the longest story of your life, so I'm gonna try to short in it up a little. Ok..............husband and I together for 6 years, we had a 6 month old baby, I was 4 months pregnant again, husband separated and had sex with my high school friend, I had the most horrible miscarriage ever known to man, got in car accident with husband while he was cheating on new lover with me, he became paralyzed, we ended up back together, but seriously, look what it took. It was by far the hardest thing I have ever went through and I'm sure it's the hardest thing that I will ever go through in my whole life. I lost a baby when I was 4 months pregnant.......3 days before hand felt it move for the first time. It was sooooo depressing, I was so dead. The only reason I'm still here is cuz I had a son to keep me going.
2007-03-15 19:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 71 and I have gone through the joys in life and have had some disappointments too.
The toughest thing I went through was to lose my mother to pneumonia when I was 8 years old. I had two brothers that weren't old enough to remember her. I was fortunate that I did know her and remember her.
I mostly missed out on the mother daughter thing when growing up.
We lived close to the cemetary and I could sit by her grave. I could feel her spirit and received great comfort sitting there.
She has always been my guardian angel. I have always done my best to please her.
When I was young I made mistakes. When I made a mistake I was fortunate enough not to make the same mistake again. If we learn by our mistakes we are on the right track. No one is perfect and if they were then they could walk on water. The important thing to do is to forgive yourself.
You can then pick yourself up and take the next step towards a peaceful easy feeling.
There have been other things that were hard but I always did my best to deal with life as it came at me.
I have tried to do what I had to do and do it to the best of my ability.
I feel my guardian angel helped me have a feeling of self satisfaction and not count on anyone but my self.
I wake up every day with a feeling that I love life and I'm very fortunate that I found a soulmate 49 years ago that I love and can depend on.
I bet you didn't want to hear such a long story and I hope you don't mind me talking about some things I rarely talk to anyone about.
Thank You.
2007-03-16 03:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by DeeJay 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was kicked out at fifteen and I have been homeless, then college was hard. the worst thing I have gone through is losing the love of my life because her parents didn't want me for their daughter. They made her choose between me or them and she did what she had to do. Every minute of every single day my thoughts and prayers are with her. Its the only time in my life where I haven't been able to bounce back. I wait and pray for things to change currently and for her to come back like she tried to so many times before. Sometimes when love is true it refuses to let go of you, I am afraid its always going to be like this but no matter I know I will love her for the rest of my days.
-NmD!
2007-03-16 02:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physically abused as a child/early adolescent (broken nose, scars on backs of legs from beating with a belt, nerve and muscle damage in left eye, broken cheek bone near left eye). Sexually abused by son of family friend from age six to age 12. Emacipated at 16 on my own working two part time jobs to pay rent and bills. Abusive relationship at 20 resluting in late term abortion at 21 when I was tossed down a flight of stairs. Close, personal relationship with cocaine to the point of addiction, binge drinking but somewhere along the line getting my head straight and walked away from it. Marriage first five years okay, next five years more than just rocky, emotional sepearaton from ex, finally divorce. But I wouldn't change any of it. I am stronger for it all I know I can survive anything and I'm not afraid to meet my maker when the time comes.
2007-03-16 03:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
toughest.. i am in the situation right now.. single mom with 4 kids.. getting no support with the dad and am the sole provider of all the things my kids need
2007-03-16 02:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by crystalink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was 2 my dad went to prison for I guess life.
When I was 9 I was abandoned by my mother.
She left me with her BOYFRIEND, luckily his family took me in without a problem.
When I 14 I moved back with my mom, only to be abandoned again. Luckliy I was left a house to live in.
When I was 15 I couldnt handle it on my own anymore so I tried to transfer schools, not knowing I needed a guardian to do so. I had the protective child agency called on me. Making me a foster child. Also the sametime that I found out about my father being murdered in prison.
When I was 17 I learned about a good friend dieing via email and then seeing a picture in the newspaper.
When I was 18 my foster mother died, and my grandparents that wouldnt take me in and left me in the foster home disappeared from my life forever when my grandfather died, and my grandma snapped.
Once again luckily for my moms old boyfriend I had a place to fall back on. And even not knowing any of my real family outside of my mother whom abandoned me (but I forgive, she was young and dumb when she had me, and has worked her *** off to try and get back in my life) and a 2 year old brother my mom had at the age of 38, everything turned out as perfect as it could.
My moms boyfriend had pretty much been my real family since I was 2 taking care of me from the time I was 2 until I was 9, then taking me back in at the age of 18 until I moved out at 21. Unfortunately Im back with them at the age of 23 since things didnt work out on my own.
And now at the age of 23 Ive learned that the people that have loved and taken me in when they had no reason to, are now suffering. My aunt and grandma have breast cancer, and my great grandma has a brain tumor. Aunt and Gma are still young in their 60's but atleast gma has lived to be 94.
All in all things havent turned out so bad though, luckily for me.
2007-03-16 03:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cancer ... twice. Once, when I was 19 y/o ... then again when I was 42 y/o.
I am now living with a life-long muscle illness, which is extremely painful ... but, when you've stared death in the face ... you learn, very quickly, to appreciate and treasure each and every day you have left. :)
2007-03-16 02:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Carol♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its something i don't even tell my friends...so I'm sorry to be wasting ur time here......
lets just say i saw my world or what i new of it crumble, like an allusion being striped away to reveal something so ugly..
in the mist of that situation, i couldn't breakdown, i had to protect someone i love (emotionally) so that they come out with lighter scars
2007-03-16 02:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being an only child in the family and now that the parents are old I have to take care of them all myself.
2007-03-16 02:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Losing a grandfather
2007-03-16 02:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by avenger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋