2007-03-15 18:49:12 · 10 answers · asked by Neeraj A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yup. Love affairs should not be opposed. But they need to be checked. One may forget his own values in an affair and make a wrong move. Besides, of all the love affairs, how many are out of true love? Most of the time it's attraction, infatuation, or just for fun.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-16 16:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in general, what is the age when love affairs happen?
I am sure that most will agree it happens in your mid-teens or late teens. This is a fragile age where the body rules over the mind. What would their future be? What are they planning to become? Are they ready to take up the responsibilities in life at such an early age? Moreover do they have the maturity to maintain the relationship? What if they become parents? Can you imagine a 16 year girl & an 18 year old having kids? They would lose their youth years. Instead of making a career the poor boy would have to be worried about his family's daily bread!.
How ever if the age is right and the couple are settled, then I don't see a reason for any opposition, It makes sense to choose your life partner.
2007-03-18 17:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by Philip G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why oppose love affairs? I am assuming you mean affairs in which people are already involved in a committed relationship. If so, I oppose because there is someone else whose emotions are being messed around with and its not the best feeling and takes months if not years to get over. Distrust and deciet for a "love affair". Try honesty, integrity, and character and maybe true love will last forever for you and you won't need "love affairs".
2007-03-16 01:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by maria s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its been honour for me to give answer to this question.
to be honsetly ya ur right we need to be loved to feel happy bcoz its an part of life without love there's nothing in the life...,i think in this generation love affairs are 10% successfull.so i would like to tell one thing is love affairs are not good in some cases it good but as far as i'm concerned i oppose love affairs
2007-03-16 02:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by krrishna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are already commited to someone else then you should oppose a love affair with another person that you are not commited to
would you oppose your wife having a love affair with someone else other than you
2007-03-16 01:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel loved in a marriage why oppose getting divorced? Is it a matter of losing financial security?
2007-03-16 02:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with ur 1st statement.
r u not even bothered about ur partner's feelings of being happy or not happy, loved or not loved? y put him/her in the middle/victim of ur crisis coz u want to b happy?
tell her/him frankly n talk things out n maybe then, u would be even happier rather than cheating on them.
dont u think so?
2007-03-18 00:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by Gayathri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you want before youre marry if not why get marry love affairs is a another words for booty call
2007-03-16 02:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get married if this is what turns you on? If you stay single, you can have as many of these as the females will let you go through.
2007-03-16 02:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't like eating leftovers.
2007-03-16 02:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋