I known for two week already, and he has been checking on and off and recently checking the website again. Clearly there has been use of escort service. The last use was February. I am waiting to find more public evidence so to cover up my found from his e-mail and websearch. But it seems that he is covering it up better from e-mail . just not covering up his searches.
I want to confront him in April when we go on vacation or on our 8th year anniversary in May. But at the same time want to confront him asap and maybe end up ending the relationship....
When is it the best time to confront?
2007-03-15 18:36:48 · 12 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
looking for escorts
2007-03-15 18:45:34 · update #1
8 yr anniversary for being together
2007-03-15 18:46:04 · update #2
You need to confront him when you have his undivided attention because there's a lot that you need to look at closely for your true answers. If there's any cause for you to distrust him, watch his actions and expressions which you should know after being with him for such a long time. You would know if you can trust him to stop if he's been using these services, or let go to be happy if it comes to this for your sake.
2007-03-15 18:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should discover out the straightforward reason first. is it because you didnot 'provide' him what he needed, or does he want some issue more beneficial that you do not have, or is it a addictive habit and so on. And take care of it properly. that's common for a guy to seek for some varieties at some factors of existence. if that's the case, it should be taken gently and forgiven
2016-12-02 02:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would just confront him now and see if he is doing more than browsing. You were snooping to find out, but that still doesn't make what he is doing right. Personally, I think that trumps any complaints he might have. This is something I would end a relationship over.
2007-03-15 18:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On your vacation? Your anniversary? Why? That is a ridiculous , don't stoop to his level. If you have an issue you need to confront him about it, not wait for a specific moment.
2007-03-15 19:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ozzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should of confronted him the very second you found out. There should be no "maybe" about dumping him. You know what he does when you're not around.
2007-03-15 18:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is in a totally good mood, unsuspecting...give him a nice smile and say, guess what...tell him what you found, tell him, don't bother to give me some story, and tell him, he can keep on doing what he's doing since you're outta there! Good luck!
2007-03-15 18:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he escorting or looking for an escort? If escorting- call and set up an appointment to see him. If looking- set him up an appointment and bust his sleazy carcass!
2007-03-15 18:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to confront him NOW.
2007-03-15 22:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste any more of your time? Approach him now.
If that is his interest, it doesnt need to include you.
8th anniversary of what???
2007-03-15 18:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about now?
You will be bothered to no end if you don't get your answers and you keep your doubts and resentment bottled up. That's not healthy. Talk to him about it.
2007-03-15 19:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by phoenix_rising_28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋