How do two people who view weed differently come to a compromise?
2007-03-15 18:13:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank GOD my hubby and I celebrate the 420 together!!
2007-03-15 18:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
That must be a discussion made prior to marriage. If it isn't possible to do so, it then comes down to one person will against another's. If one disagrees with having it in the house then it must be put as an ultimatum. If weed is found in the house it is still against the law(at least in the US). It will eventually become a major stumbling block in the marriage unless the weed smoker is made to understand that the non smoker will not tolerate it in marriage. Understand that if this spouse is picked up purchasing it he or she may be needing bail money that could have been used for a utility bill, food, rent, etc.that is a good enough argument if anything is. And the excuse that, "I won't get caught I'm careful." has been heard by many undercover officers. You play with matches enough and you eventually get burned.
2007-03-15 18:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
As long as the weed smoker don't interfere with what you want to do within the relationship, and respects you when they are smoking, then you may be able to tolerate them. If their smoking causes any issues in the relationship, then get them understood or make a decision on if you need to let go of the relationship.
2007-03-15 18:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it's a big deal to the non smoker, you have to lay down the law, it's either the weed or me. Seems to me if he won't give up the weed for you, that speaks volumes for how you rank in the relationship. If he refuses to give it up, I'd walk away and REALLY mean it.
2007-03-15 21:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married to a weed smoker. I helped destroy our marriage. How could I accept it from him but tell my kids that it was wrong. Six months after we divorced the state took his children away (his ex smoked too) !!! Their still in state custody after (4) years. Seems that drugs are more important to him and his ex than their children are !!! What scares me is I could have lost my children also for letting them live in a situation where drugs were a daily thing !!!
2007-03-16 04:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose the weed smoker could smoke somewhere where non-weed smoker is around or in the same room.
2007-03-15 18:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mochi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im a weed smoker, and my husband don't care, we have an understanding, i don't peer pressure him to smoke, and i only smoke once or twice a week.
2007-03-15 18:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by sabrinajones30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
on the opposite , I doubt those who smoke will earnings in any respect from legalisation. it will likely be taxed i imagine for the authorities it may be effective. at the same time as i do not smoke , Amsterdam is my customary city in the international for its laid back mindset. Take a city like London , the position the streets are filled on the weekends with human beings stumbling out of nightclubs scuffling with , vomiting , doing issues they would not do of their regularly occurring body of options of their alcohol triggered ridiculousness. Then imagine of Amsterdam , the position some human beings smoke some thing in peace and quiet , and socialise on an advanced aspect. also , legalisation may eliminate the favor for street sellers , at the same time as persevered illegality will in undemanding words more beneficial push issues "underground"
2016-12-02 02:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think that pot was the worst thing someone could do...( I was sheltered at the time) lol
Smokin' a joint is about equilivalent to drinking a 6 pack of beer, you just don't get the headache the next morning if you exceed the limit......it relaxes ya....
Anyway....I really don't see a big deal in it, if he'd keep it to himself....and respect my opinion on the matter.
2007-03-15 18:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never marry a weed smoker. Solves that problem.
2007-03-15 18:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by Shayna 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I WISH it was just weed!
I am married to a man who has a coke habit. He has even been in trouble with the law about it. Been through counseling(court mandated) and still hasn't stopped!!!
They don't stop unless THEY WANT TO!!! Weed or ANY drug! How much are YOU willing to take before it is enough?
Bitching doesn't help.
You have to decide what is right for you.
Protect yourself, before he drags you down with him.
2007-03-15 18:19:57 · answer #11 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋