Please help me.
2007-03-15 17:54:29 · 12 answers · asked by sweet boy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Nobody knows...but we have all asked ourselves the same 'why me?' question. You won't get answers to this --you just have to accept who/what you are and live your life happily(it can be done)...
2007-03-15 17:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Including the off beat info about the fact that your brothers and sisters lived in a house together young indicates abuse or some other type of intimate relations with your siblings. I'm guessing that something went on between you and one of your brothers. You need to talk to them, and a psychologist. I have seen people go from gay to straight from a few weeks of help. Although i wasn't so sure of the results, but whatever.
2007-03-16 00:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by Nodnarb Renmarc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is in my opinion and more scientific and logical, I believe that it's somewhat like depression. You aren't born that way, but your brain has a drastic change after an event or something. I'm not sure what might have happened but, if you don't mind pondering these questions, did you only grow up with a mom or perhaps something happened to you or if not, I have no idea... but don't think your like some bizarre freak or anything. But it's not genetically created, don't believe that.
2007-03-16 01:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by spinelli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody asks themselves that. Your ok man, its ok to be gay. Just play safe find someone to love & be happy with. Enjoy your life, dont worry about what other people think, your a person first, being gay is only a small part of that person. Your special, love youself & boy>boy luv forever.
Have a Good life David :)xxx
2007-03-16 03:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by wowdavid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the whole Nature vs Nurture debate right there. Apparently, if identical twins are gay - BOTH of them will be. But with non-identical twins, only one will be. (That's if one of them is gay to start with.)
This debate has been raging for decades, so you'll never find an answer. Just another one of life's little mysteries.
2007-03-16 00:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is determined if you're gay or not while you're still in your mommy's tummy. It's a genetic thing, not a nurture thing. You don't have a choice, and neither does anyone else. Thankfully not all people are as horrible to gay people as the people on YA seem to be.
2007-03-16 00:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LUCKY YOU!!!
Seriously.
Out of all your siblings and you're the only one YOU KNOW OF that's gay. I'd be willing to bet that one or more of your siblings might actually have homosexual tendencies that they either deny or cover up well enough that you can't even tell. Maybe you're the only one with bollocks enough to admit it!
2007-03-16 01:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that just goes along with the theory that people are born gay that its not their enviroment. Personally its beyond me I hope someone who is gay can help you.
2007-03-16 00:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by beatch38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happen in the chromosomes during pregnancy. there's somthing wrong in your gene that turn out to be the person you are now.
2007-03-16 01:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by marinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an awesome person... just try to live your life, and be happy... If anyone harasses you, don't worry... just know that you are loved....
2007-03-16 00:59:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋