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Im 21, my husband is 28. We've been married for 5 months now and trying to concieve for more than 6 months. Iv always wanted to be a mother, and have known my whole life i wanted a child as soon as i found my soul mate, i never imagined i would have trouble getting pregnant! We both want a baby, and have been trying to calculate when to "try" to concieve, but my cycles are extremely irregular and make it very difficult...they range from 28-42 days. (so im pretty much clueless about when im ovulating or gonna start my period). Last month (Febuary) my cycle was from the 6th-10th. This month (march) i have not yet started my period. Im so confused...am i late?? I took a test today and it said negative?! Everytime i take a test and it says negative i break down in tears...im now to the point im angry with god for not letting me concieve. IS ANYONE GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING?? I NEED SUPPORT! PLEASE HELP!

2007-03-15 17:27:13 · 15 answers · asked by *Loren* 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting Trying to Conceive

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hi, we are having the same problem too. I don't know why my wife is so hard to get pregnant. we went to see doctor and paid a lot medication fee because doctor gave my wife clomid and helped us to see what day is our fertility days, then doctor asked us to buy the fertility test. It is costly, because one test cost me about S$7, and one cycle needs about 5 to 10 tests. my wife cycle days is not stable, sometime is 35 days , sometime even 45 days. It is really costly. Then my friend recommend me to buy one ovulotion kit called " Clearblue/Clearplan fertility monitor. This monitor helped us to measure our fertility days. We used it for 3 months and my wife got pregnant , and we now have a cute baby boy age 2 . these two years (after we have a baby boy), we try to conceive naturely without any fertility monitor to assits us. but then still no good news. we were so dissapointed, and these few months, my wife started using the fertility monitor again, till now haven't got any news. I highly recommend u to use this , it's because it's cheaper compare to others. Their monitor sticks, one sticks cost about S$3-$4 only.

2007-03-15 19:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by chor 2 · 0 0

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2016-12-20 07:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Girl, you have to take it easy. Sometimes it takes a year or two, and that's totally normal! There could be complications if you were on the pill, for example. I think one thing you can do is see your gynecologist, to see if there are any reasons for your periods being irregular - she will test your hormones, etc.
Honestly the best advice is to stop charting and calculating, and quit buying and using pregnancy tests. God has nothing to do with it at this point, because you are trying to manipulate things. Babies come when they are meant to... so just concentrate on your marriage and the relationship with your husband -it is great for the two of you to have some time together before a baby comes. Instead of you being all stressed out (and of course, I can understand wanting a baby), get a more positive attitude toward life in general and get some happiness in your life. Work on being your best self, so you can bring that to your marriage and future children.

2007-03-16 02:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0 0

Isn't it wierd that something that seems so easy for some women is actually quite diffifcult for a lot of them! I've only been TTC for 3 months and I'm already beyond frustrated! Go to twoweekwait.com. I have found such comfort in this community. They are all women who are in the same boat. It really helps you to feel and realize that you're not alone! You can also try charting your basal temperature...it is really helpful and it helps you to learn a lot about your body. I just started charting my temps and it's really interesting and helpful. Go to fertilityfriend.com if you are interested in trying this. Remember, on the average, in takes 6 months to a year to get pregnant. Hang in there!

2007-03-15 17:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by lac 3 · 0 0

Giving birth to a new life is indeed a blessing which almost every woman would wish to have. How to get pregnant naturally https://tr.im/infertilitycure
Enjoying the feeling of motherhood and raising a family would surely be a couple’s dream. Some get it naturally, while for some others things don’t seem to work as they desire. These reasons which stop a women from conceiving can be due to either physical reasons or truly physiological.

2016-01-13 19:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by Shiloh 3 · 0 0

I had trouble getting pregnant too. It was like the harder I tried the worse it was. The second I gave up and said whatever happens, happens I got pregnant. I think I was stressed with all of the calculating and journaling and it was making it harder to conceive. Stop stressing, have sex every other day, and just forget you're trying to get pregnant. It will happen! Good Luck!

2007-03-15 17:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jennie K 2 · 0 0

Im in the same boat. been married for 3 and a half yrs been ttc with my husband for nearly 5 yrs. have irregular cycles too and that doesnt help any. my suggestion would be go to ivillage.com there you can talk to others that are in the same boat and you can start a planner where you chart your temp and know when you exactly are ovulating. research it is also good. go to the doctor and tell them you have been ttc. or it could be like i hear ALOT maybe its not time yet. i just thought i was when in fact i hadnt had af in 3 mths so what i was feeling was bad case of pms. i am getting fed up but havent lost hope and i hope you dont either. do everything that you can possibly do. and dont you not understand when a friend comes to you and says their pregnant but wasnt expecting it so their not jumping for joy. yeah i see alot of them too. good luck sending you buckets of babydust

2007-03-15 17:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by J's Place 1 · 0 0

First you need to thank God for everthing he has done and given you every time you pray. Then go get a good ovulation kit from the store the ones with the little strips, they sometimes have a good ovulation chart in them that will help you. It did for me it took me 8 months to get pregant.But it only took 4 months after I got the kit. If that doesnt help go see a doctor you may need Medicine that will help you ovulate . My friend is doing that right now to try and get pregant on ovulation Meds.

2007-03-15 17:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by NickyNawlins 6 · 0 0

To be very frank five months is too early. We had our first kid before we realised. Second one we were planing for a year and it has happened now. Although past year we had all the things in our favour , temp chart and all indicator to give right time to ovulating, still it never happened. So just relax have sex every day, have faith in GOD and it will happen. See a doc if you feel something is wrong else donot worry.

2007-03-15 18:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by King 1 · 0 0

they are right just relax I understand how it feels I was in the same boat I have a 5 year old and have been trying to conceive since he was 2 we went to all the testing to see if something is wrong their was nothing it was in gods hands finally last year I got preg in June I was so happy but I had given up all hope and told myself I cant get preg then oops one day I had to go to the hospital because I was so sick and they said I was preg I was shocked... I losted the baby at 20 weeks when I was preg... their was something wrong dont worry I am not trying to scare you but it woke me up and gave me hope that yeah I can get preg I just need to be Patience and that it will come in time I know its hard to wait but trust me I wish you the best..

2007-03-15 20:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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