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why do guys do this ? can you still get pregnant this way? . and what are the chances that you can be pregnant the day after . me and my bf had sex yesterday and the condom broke but he said he didnt cu* in me but how do i know ? i been bleading it to soon for my period . could i be pregnant?

2007-03-15 17:24:30 · 18 answers · asked by JenN 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

i been bleading a lil ? it to soon for me to get my period . i go to the ob/gyn next week should i ask for a blood test? or is it to soon?

2007-03-15 17:30:27 · update #1

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Does not work, for the pre-ejaculate still has about 50,000 sperm cells in it and you can still get pregnant that way

2007-03-15 17:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0 0

why do guys do this? well...while wearing a condom is all fine and well it doesnt feel...natural. it's makes the sensation for him less sensitive and thus not as enjoyable for him. ie-he doesn't get as much of a sensation out of it all as possible.
can you still get pregnant this way? do NOT for half a second believe that this is a reliable method for birth control. i'm positive there's statistics on effectiveness you can look up on webmd.com.
as for you possibly being pregnant now...well, sperm once ejaculated only lives for like a couple of hours, so believe me, those guys are swimmin to find your egg! (i'm no doctor so this could be inaccurate. again look up webmd.com-it's an awesome and reliable source for ANY health related question!)
also, even if your bf didn't *** in you (which is usually pretty obvious-it's with the orgasm) there are still a few of his guys milling around in pre-*** which is the guy's form of natural lube...your v-lips and inside will get wet from the lube you produce, and he produces a pre-*** which also helps the lubrication process to make it nice and easy to 'insert part A (the penis) into part B (the vagina)'...so even without his orgasm/ejaculation it's still possible to get pregnant even then. BUT since he was wearing a condom and assuming he was telling the truth that he didn't ejaculate....yes it's possible, but not necessarily as probible. even a broken condom is gonna be harder for the sperm to get through.
sorry if this isn't helping emotionally. i'd recommend looking up a place like Planned Parenthood and getting the 72-hr pill ASAP. they're over-the-counter now :) so you dont need an exam to get it. they're usually very confidential (ie no parental-involvement if you dont want them to know) and i've even heard of some couples getting an extra one to keep for a potential emergency situation such as yours. you need to take those as soon as possible after the 'unprotected sex.'
as for the bleeding....was it your first time? if not, i dont know much about it and could only theorize for you.
hope this helps. sorry for the small novel and good luck with everything!

2007-03-16 00:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Dear Abby 3 · 0 0

The pullout/withdrawal method isn't very effective in preventing pregnancy. Guys who use this method don't think that pregnancy is possible from pre-***, when in reality it is very possible to become pregnant from that because there is sperm in it. This website talks about statistics, etc. I thought it was very helpful:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/birth-control-pregnancy/birth-control/withdrawal.htm

You could be pregnant from a brok condom, like I said before about pre-***. But depending on where you are in your cycle the chances are higher/lower. There is not a huge chance if he did not do it inside of you/the condom but there is still a chance. You can wait to see if your period comes on time or take an early results test a few days before its due. Best Wishes!

2007-03-16 00:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0 0

Your boyfriend is an ignorant, self-indulgent jerk. Sorry hon, but I call it as I see it. When a male has intercourse, he will "leak" during sex. Semen is in the leaking. I know he wore a condom and good for the both of you, but he needs to get more educated before he starts feeding you these stupid all-knowing answers that he seems to believe to be true. He will end up getting you pregnant and believe it couldn't have been him because he "pulled-out" when he ejaculated, therefore, YOU MUST BE FOOLING AROUND! Get a book and sit down with him so that he can learn the truth and get a proper understanding of what he's talking about. I hope you're not with child. Good luck.

2007-03-16 00:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by David T 6 · 0 0

If u are bleeding u are probably starting your period...the pull out method is not 100% accurate but if done properly then u have a slim chance...The statistics show that 20 women will get pregnant out of every 100 women who use withdrawal method..I used this method to prevent pregnancy with my husband for 4 yrs before we decided to try for another baby and i never got pregnant within those 4 yrs...Chances are if u are bleeding u arent pregnant...

2007-03-16 01:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If he pulls out properly and has no sperm in his pre-come (scientists have proven that pre-come doesn't have sperm in it unless they are leftovers from his last ejaculation, and if he's urinated a couple times since then any leftover swimmers are probably washed away), it can be 96% effective. THIS IS REALLY RARE....but best case scenario, right? Most young men really don't do this properly, they wait until the last minute to pull out or do have a few accidental spermies left in their penis that comes out in the pre-come, rendering the method only about 74% effective with normal use. Meaning over a fourth of couple using this method get pregnant within a year. So you're probably not pregnant, but it's possible. Also bleeding when it's not time for your period can be from rough sex bumping your cervix...or it CAN be implantation bleeding of an embryo attatching to your uterine wall. I really hope you're not pregnant since you guys were trying to be safe, but you'll have to wait until your period to test...and remember, no one method is 100% safe. I got pregnant on the birth control pill. Best of luck!

2007-03-16 00:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by grayhare 6 · 0 1

Guys do this because they dont want u to get pregnant but u can still get pregnant this way because it is not all that effective and u dont even kno if he came in u by accident so go get urself tested because u can be pregnant and also bleed except if u get a heavy period then i dont think u are. But still see a doctor

2007-03-16 00:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You won't bleed from pregnancy a day after sex. It takes five days or more for the egg to implant into the uterus.
You can definitely get pregnant from the pull out method. That is the weakest form of birth control.

2007-03-16 00:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by hollilynn 5 · 0 0

You can't know if you will become pregnant right now it's too soon, and yes you could get pregnant from this. The pull out method doesn't work because men pre-ejaculate.

2007-03-16 00:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by wheezerthill 4 · 0 0

Pull out method and russian roulette with a full pistol are about the same. You definately are playing with a loaded gun. So to speak. He did not have to *** for you to get pregnant. Those little soldiers creep up and out just the same. If you are bleeding I doubt you are pregnant. As far as your getting pregnant its just a matter of time not when with the game you are playing

2007-03-16 00:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jerry G 4 · 1 0

Guys do this because women allow them to. You have complete control over this if you don't like it tell him you don't if he doesn't like how you feel then tell him to keep stepping. As far as know if he cums in you, he cums in you it simply comes back out you'll know it's kinda gross. As far as bleeding after sex that could be a sign of a possible STI especially if the sex was uncomfortable. It could also be possible that he is being too rough.

2007-03-16 00:39:09 · answer #11 · answered by divadsd04 2 · 0 0

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