Does having sex the first time hurt, for the lady? (I never use tampons before)...
2007-03-15 17:13:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It can, and usually does a bit, but if you're with a guy who knows what he's doing and takes the time to use foreplay to relax you and really turn you on a lot, the pain is really almost unnoticeable. That is one advantage of starting out with an older guy who knows what he's doing instead of some other kid that's just as nervous and inexperienced as you are! But you'll be fine, everyone is born a virgin... but nothing says you have to STAY that way! You'll be fine, find out how great it is, and and then wonder what the big deal was all about.
2007-03-16 13:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does hurt. It helps if you use a lubricant, but most women will bleed a little and be very uncomfortable. Even using a tampon won't be enough to make the first time easier, for most ladies. But once you get past that first time and give yourself a little time to heal, you'll be fine. :)
2007-03-16 00:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
usually, but only temporarily under normal circumstances. if it hurts for a longer time or hurts each time, see your doctor for an exam. whether you've used tampons or not shouldn't be a factor.
2007-03-16 00:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does. If the guy does it right, it hurts for only the first few minutes, then gets better.
You'll be sore afterwards for a week.
2007-03-16 00:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tara662 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah but after a while you get used to it....the first answerer is right your stomach may hurt. lol
2007-03-16 00:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by SamC-akaCaysynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah it hurts , but you don't need to be afraid cause it is not veery painful is just a little bit...you just need to be well lubricated and relax...
2007-03-16 00:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a little but nothing really bad! just go nice and easy you'll be fine!
Good luck :)
2007-03-16 00:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was painful for me. But, not unbearable (or else i wouldn't have kept doing it!)
Use lube and go slow!
2007-03-16 00:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does a little, especially if you don't have any lubricant.
2007-03-16 00:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by JLB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it does...cuz its your 1st time. & sometimes ur tummy will hurt.
2007-03-16 00:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋