This guy friend is only a friend and always will be. I have suspicions that there is something more to him, but I just can' t put my finger on it. He is a fairly decent looking guy who could easily get a girl in a heartbeat. I say on average he gets about 5 numbers a month from girls. He tends to fall "in love" with girls who are taken or clearly unavailable because of their celebrity status. He wants to be single, but then complains sometimes that he is single. When he meets a new girl, he is "confused" by whether "said girl" is interested or not. What always ends up happening is he finds something wrong with the girl within a week of knowing her.
What I'm trying to ask is this: Is he gay?
He will still be my friend either way... but I need opinions please!!!
2007-03-15 17:10:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i don't see anything here that would indicate that he is gay. if he was gay, he'd be asking for guy's phone numbers, not girls.
as far as ending relationships after a short time, well, guess he's just picky and knows what he wants. meeting someone in a bar and getting a phone number really isn't the best way to meet mrs right. it's just a chance to meet random people. .but once you get to know them, only then can you make a decision if they really are a good match.
if you want to help him find his true match, encourage him to focus on friendships first, with women, not rush into romance situations only to discover imperfections.. bottom line, nobody is perfect. he needs to learn to accept girls and their imperfections, or get used to being single for a long long time.
2007-03-15 17:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't necessarily mean he's gay...maybe he just has a high standards list for the girl he wants...some guys can be very picky when it comes to girls...from what I've seen(strictly my opinion)that if a guy is gay he may have a ton of friends that are girls, but doesn't seem interested in any of them...if your friend says that he likes girls, there could be the option that he could be bi...i have a couple of friends that are bi, and when you meet them you wouldn't be able too tell...because when you're around them they are constantly flirting with girls but they have admitted to doing stuff with guys too...of course i cant tell you if your friend is bi or not...i just wouldn't recommend confronting him and asking him if he's gay cuz he might get defensive...like most guys would...if you want to check if he is gay or not...just see how he reacts around girls if he shows no interest in them then he might be gay...but if he does show interest, then maybe he just hasn't found the right girl yet.
2007-03-16 00:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Miss SWAT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat with a guy and it is hard to tell. Maybe you should just bring up the gay topic in general and be supportive of the idea. He obviously is looking for a level of comfort for something.... CHEERS to you for being such a good friend.
2007-03-16 13:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by johnnyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be gay. That's just one of the possiblities...Maybe he just has problems with social situations.....Maybe he's afraid of getting involved.
2007-03-16 00:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may i ask you one thing? are you a gay? do you expect gay relatoin with him? do one thing... TRY TO LISTEN HIM. unconditionally, without any judgment... don't try to give advice.... an empathetic listening will make clear all...
2007-03-16 00:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tharun K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you won't know for sure unless you ask him
2007-03-16 12:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by MS.MOCHA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.... you need help!!... how would we know... we don't know him, how about asking him for a chance...
2007-03-16 00:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋