teenage children sexually actve?

Question

i have a 12 year old sexually active, lying, and stealing, smoking. why at this age is she doing all of this.??

Answer 1

A lot of the time, no offence to you, it has to do with how you raise her.. And what kind of friends she has, mostly towards how strong in herself she is and who she finds at friends. And what area you live in... Maybe you need to have a long conversation with her.. She's 12, a baby.. She needs to be having a normal childhood, chances are she doesn't want to grow up this fast but feels pressured by her peers to be involved in this stuff.

And please warn her about the consequences.. Lung cancer, a baby, prison!!!!!! If you love your daughter then help her... I'm sure she's just gotten off the track for a bit. If you have to maybe you should get her out of her school... And try to build a relationship with her, get to know her. Love her.

Answer 2

she might be trying to tell you something try talking with her but let her do all the talking if that don't work take her to the health unit and get all the info on sexual disease and birth control maybe the 5 year arm stints like that she cant mess up her life more than what she's doing now no matter what we say it only takes minutes to mess up and they do what they want
if you taught her wright from wrong their is nothing you can do she will have to learn the hard way

Answer 3

peer pressure could have caused the lying,stealing,and smoking. But the sexually active thing is probably hormones. You should sit her down and talk to her about why she's doing all these things and explain to her why doing them will ruin her life.

Answer 4

this is the age when puberty starts she probably has been getting attention from boys and that is why she is doing this. as for the stealing, lying, etc she probably saw the "cool" kids doing this or saying that they do this and thinks that if she does it she will be cool. you need to set her straight. i also think that it is time to start disciplining her if you know what i mean. and you also need to tell her about the health risks that come with smoking and having unprotected sex.

Answer 5

A 12 year old smoking?

Answer 6

You may be too controling of the child's life, children that dont have a good relationship with their parents and will do those things to rebel. Create a better relationship with the child and you may see improvment.

Answer 7

It's probably because she is hanging out with the wrong crowd or perhaps she has been seeing things like that on television. Monitor her and then talk with her.

Answer 8

Because she is getting it from her friends, and you need to take action right away!At my school, lots of teens are doing this sstuff, but it's mainly because their parents don't put to much attention to them, or over-spoil them and the kid thinks they won't get into trouble. Mr., PLEASE talk to your child!Us teens more than anyone knows what your kid is going through.She needs you to THOUROGHLY(or, else, she'll ignore you) talk to her. Compare her future life to someone who is doing what she is.Please, take her to a rehab if necessary.
p.s, like most parents, please don't try to deny it and say that you child does not nee help.

Good Luck!

Answer 9

Blame yourself. Where was the dicipline. Did you say NO enough. Did you spoil her?Did she get her way? Wasw she whipped often enough?

Answer 10

maybe the reason why she is doing this is because you are not doing enough as parents so she resorts to other things like that.