women weight and your depiction of them being beautiful?

Question

Besides being over weight, what specific features on a woman makes her ugly. Mature repsonses only!?
I want all the grown, mature people to respond to this one. I want to know what charcteristics/ features on a woman makes her ugly. I want details such as nose, skin color, etc. And I also want to know what is fat. How much does a woman have to BEGIN to weight, before she is considered fat. What pant size should a woman weight? Is there a differance between black women and white women? Black women are born with curves (hips, thighs and bottoms) Is that considered fat cause white women are stick figure usually? Or does weight and size even matter and account for how beautiful she is?Lets talk. Again mature answers only!!!

Answer 1

Good question! First off, what makes a woman ugly really has nothing to do with her weight alone... Her attitude and how she treats other people, like if she's a rag and mean to other people, then she's ugly. Hurtful, bitter, spiteful, cheating, lying, THOSE are what make someone ugly. Our society places altogether too much importance on appearance and especially skinniness! To the point of causing eating disorders and personality disorders from inability to "meet up" with standards. Everyone has different taste, so what is attractive to one may not be to another. There truly is no set "pant size" or weight a woman should weigh. Depends on how you are built, your age, your parents and your lifestyle, for example. I've seen very large women look beautiful, because (I think) THEY think they are! I used to be quite slender in my younger years and have gained a lot of weight with mid-life and recovery from drug addiction, so I'm curious to see the answers you get, too. Back in the 50's, women's weight, ideally, no matter how tall they were, was under 125 lbs. Average size was a 10. Shoe size was usually under 7 1/2. Look at us now!!!

Answer 2

Being over weight isn't necessarily ugly. Skinny people can be ugly too. Race has nothing to do with it either. Often times it isn't a single feature. More the particular proportions of that person's face.

For example : Whitney Houston : Not fat at all, but pretty ugly. Facial proportions are all messed up. (Worse since all her plastic surgery)

Whoopi Goldberg, possibly the ugliest woman on the face of the Earth. Not hugely fat, no single thing that stands out but the whole package is truly repulsive.

When is someone is considered fat? Fat doesn't really have a definate meaning. Terms like "overweight" and "obese" are at least defined medically. But not by a fixed weight, it varies according to one's height.

Answer 3

Don't you know beauty is in the eye of the beholder. One person's idea of fat/ugly may be completely different to someone else's idea.

I'm white and not a stick figure if it makes you feel better. I have hips/thighs/butt. Sometimes I think there are girls out there that would rather not have curves at all. Women should embrace their curves. I know men find certain waist/hip ratios attractive.....0.7 is considered an ideal waist/hip ratio. And I think anywhere from a size 2 to a size 14 is a nice place to be.

Even if men tend to notice physical appearance first, they want someone who is beautiful on the inside and who is confident and secure in herself.

Take care : )

Answer 4

Thank you so much for asking this question... Its something I have wondered as well. I can see a woman and think she looks very pretty, but then one of my friends might say something cruel about her looks.

Personally, I think everyone truly is beautiful in their own way. Natural beauty, women who don't give in to plastic surgery or eating disorders, is the most beautiful of all. A girl may be called plain because she doesn't wear makeup, isn't thin, and doesn't have so-called striking features, but she is still very very beautiful.

Answer 5

I think all women are beautiful because God made each and every one of them in her image. Women are beautiful because they have inner beauty. Exterior beauty is fleeting and the beauty of an elderly woman with the look of wisdom and the laugh lines around her eyes and mouth is comparable to none other. A baby thinks the face of its mother and father are the most beautiful because it hasn't yet been socialized to the ideals that our culture claims to be significantly better than others.

Answer 6

A woman would be considered fat if she loses proportionality to her body.
But I don't want to judge.

I love Black women, especially with CURVES. To me, real women have healthy, fuller figures instead of the "accepted beauty" of waifish, anorexic, white, fashion models.
As far as perfect weight to me, Niecy Nash (Reno 911) and thicker, like Queen Latifah and up.

I was with a thick Jamaican woman last summer at my college, (thicker than Queen Latifah mind you) who was 5'5" with thick thighs and full bottom and it was heavenly, because there IS more to love.
Cuddling with her was probably the best part.

I like darker complexions. I have always liked darker features, like brunettes, Mediterranean women, Arab women, Indian women, and my #1 preference Black Women.

And when I see Black women trying to conform to white "beauty" standards, (like narrowing a wide, beautiful nose) I want to cry, seriously.

In the end, the woman's face is all that matters to me, if I can connect with her eyes. I am attracted to certain facial features; ie, her smile, her eyes, nose, etc. The body is secondary. If I can see the beauty and warmth in her eyes, then weight, breast size, and height are irrelevant.

My advice to all those men who like thin women, they are missing out! My advice to thick women- be proud of your full female figures!

Answer 7

Generally, beauty lean towards the slim (not skinny) clean, sweet smelling with a face of pleasant features and of course a good deportment is important.

Answer 8

beauty is in the eyes of the beholder... i might be very ugly to you but i make my seatmate shiver when i walk pass him.. i mean .. it's the inner self that measures your true beauty. what is there to enjoy if your are cleopatra from the outside but oh so ugly betty from the inside got my hint?

Answer 9

as a man. i think that these following features makes a woman ugly:

thick or messy eyebrows
too skinny (ribs showing)
masculine features
short butch like haircut
lots of red freckles
bad skin
realy curley hair (macy gray)
fat or very thin lips
big ears