Should I let my kid brother be a part of my slumber party?

Question

I am having a slumber party at my house this weekend as my parents are away.However,my 14 yr old kid brother wd be at home.
Shd I include him in the party?
My friends and I are all set to dress him up like a girl.
He looks cute and wd look pretty as a girl.
What shd we make him wear?
He is very sporting.I have several times put hairpins in his long hair and made him wear a bindi and kajal and with just that much he looks like a real girl.
I want to make an all out effort this time since my parents will be away.
What shd I make him wear?

Answer 1

I think you should dress him up first before the party, that way he's just one of the girls. You should call all the girls & tell them to bring extra clothes for your brother, because they all will get a turn dressing him up as a girl. And say the girl that makes him the prettiest can dress him up as a girl for the rest of the party & perhaps whenever she wants too.

Answer 2

I know this is almost every girl's dream. You can go ahead with dressing him up like a girl if he is that sporting and doesn't mind that. Generally boys of that age do not agree to such treatment. Just don't go against his will OK........because I have a little brother too and I would never force my intentions upon him. Well, if he doesn't mind and is all that sporting, just go and ask him whether there is any particular choice in his mind for him to wear on your slumber party. Or you can twist the question. Ask him what you should wear for the slumber party. If he likes a dress, you can dress him up in that. I haven't got any better idea.....

Answer 3

Are you kidding? Come on, don't make your brother dress like a girl ... there's enough people with serious problems about "who they are" out there, without you playing with this kid's mind! Leave him alone, and let him have his own friend over and they can be in another room. However ... I hope your parents see this email since you are obviously having a party without their permission. You think it's fun now, but if you keep up this behavior, I'm sorry to say that you shouldn't expect your parents to have much trust in you as the years go by.

Answer 4

It's always fun to play dress up...especially with boys! =)

But that being said, make sure your brother is okay with whatever you plan on doing to him. Don't try to pressure him into stuff or stunts that he'd feel uncomfortable with during your party, and don't spring stuff on him all of a sudden during the party. Let him know what to expect and let him make his own decisions without peer pressure. For example, if he's okay with roaming around your house singing and dancing to "Kajra Re" in drag, that's cool. Don't try to make him dash down to the corner mail box and back if he doesn't want to do it (many people are very closed minded about guys dressing up in girls' clothing). Make him feel included and comfortable at the party if he chooses to participate. If he doesn't even want to be included in the party, don't make him, and don't hold it against him.

As for what to make him wear, I would go for gagra or sari...with a full face of makeup and bindi. Bright, flashy, costume jewelry would be fun too. It all depends on the look you're going for. You could ask him what he'd be willing to wear, etc. When creating boobs, you could use tissues to stuff the bra, but balloons might work better.

Finally, this isn't related directly to your question, but are you sure having a party when your parents are out of town is such a great idea? Stuff like this has a strange way of getting back to them and then they may not trust you. If they already know about your plans, then great, you don't have to worry about this.

If you want to go ahead with your party, just keep in mind to make your brother feel as comfortable as possible and include him in the decision making. And finally, just be nice to him that weekend. I'm not just saying this because he's family, and it's good to be nice to family members, I'm saying this because it is in your best interest to be nice to him. If your parents don't know about your party, and if he feels slighted, he might tell on you.

Have a good weekend and don't do anything too crazy! =)

I hope my answer helped!

Answer 5

I wouldn't have him be a part of it because it might make some of the girls uncomfortable. have fun at the slumber party!

Answer 6

Nope! leave the kid alone. He may become a transvestite with such psychological doses that you are injecting him with. You have fun! but remember it should not be at someone else expense.

Answer 7

hahahahaha. If its a sleepover, he will fall asleep early anyways especially with all of the chick flicks. or make him serve food, and make it seem like a challenge like "i bet you cant serve food" i do it with my brother all the time, and he always does it. For some reason they like challenges and games. So make it all a big game.

Answer 8

I did this to my little brother too, he's 13! I put him in one of my shotr dresses to show of his legs and my 4 inch stilettos. Also, I mad him wear my sister's training bra and we put to little balloons in it. We did his make-up, hair and nails. He actually passed for a girl when I was done my magic!

Answer 9

if ur bro looks very good with the kajol & bindhi then just try to tie a saree
if not any party wear clothes
try it out its ur wish
all the best enjoy ur party

Answer 10

make him wear short dresses or skirt , so that he can show lot of legs