Especially married people. Why bother? Just go get a magazine. Enlighten me please.
2007-03-15 16:50:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is a perversion...it is not about the magazine....because even a magazine is just as much a step away from commitment....
It is about the act of the perversion....it is about the "doing it without doing it" mentality....
So, there is simply no other explanation as far as I am concerned....because it is all taking your "mind" away from the commitment that was made to be exclusive lovers....
Lovers means spiritually, physically, emotionally, sexually/physically....etc.....soul mates!!!!
P.S.
It is a cover up for some other issue that they don't want to deal with ... and it gives a false sense of security....
I hope that helps
2007-03-15 17:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by LIFECOACH 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you answered your own question. Anonymous. Also that way they don't have to make a commitment. It is what it is.
They don't have to justify what they like, who they are and they can be what they want to be even if they are totally different in their everyday life. Maybe its a stress reliever for some. Lots of different reasons I suppose these may be some.
2007-03-15 16:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by smile4u 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A magazine cant talk back to you.. no interaction.. Honestly I feel the people who get on the chat rooms to talk about sex are just to cheap to call a 1-900 number...Perverts.
2007-03-15 16:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by Dana D 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
A really messed up marriage and a false sense of gratification.
2007-03-15 16:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by momof3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They get off on the attention and the excitement.
I'm with you though...why bother?
2007-03-15 16:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy. It's like masturbating - your mind is tricked into believing that you are with some wonderfully sexy other person. In reality, it some overweight, nasty that also needs a fantasy.
2007-03-15 16:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well,if u are married n u r in amesy relationship you get a sort of satisfication knowing u can do wht u please in cyber n not real n noone can findout!
2007-03-15 17:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would enlighten you, but first someone needs to enlighten me about it
2007-03-15 17:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think:
attention.
a chance to lie
and no one find out.
friendship.
distraction from problems.
but then again i'm only 15, so....
2007-03-15 17:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by bookworm8346 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do it cause its taboo.. its away of cheating with out phsyically cheating and to some they feel that , that isnt actually considered cheating although it is..
2007-03-15 16:55:06 · answer #10 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋