Hey
my friend is 17 and i am 18
he is a boy and i think he just ruined his life
he and his gf had sex and forgot to take pills to like don't get a baby and now he wants to drop out of skool
wat do i do?
2007-03-15 16:47:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She might not be pregnant, if she just forgot one pill, the chances of pregnancy are sort of slim (I'm talking about regular birth control, like Ortho Tri-Cyclen). It is possible though. Tell him to have her take a pregnancy test, they only cost a couple bucks, and the results could really ease their minds. Also, I would advise that your friend use condoms, even if his g.f. is on regular birth control, because condoms break and it's good to have a safety net. Even if his girlfriend is pregnant, he should not drop out of school. He should get a job though, if he doesn't already have one. Whatever they decide to do about the pregnancy is probably going to cost money. If they decide to keep the baby, him finishing high school is of paramount importance, because he will make much more money if he graduates high school than if he drops out.
2007-03-15 17:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by ☭ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him not to drop out but maybe take up night schooling the world is not over for him he has just made a bad turn make sure his family and her family know whats going on if she going to have a baby because at this age they will need help tell to work in the day and go to school at night and look for a better day. Maybe having a baby will help them grow as people never know. Just please don't let him drop out of school because all that is not called for and tell him he need to be using condoms anyway
2007-03-15 17:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by mz.atl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how important school is first of all. Because if he does have a baby he is not going to get a good paying job without education. Second of all, tell him its not all his fault, I mean she did open her legs. Third of all, make sure it is his and that there is actually going to be a baby. Tell him if there is a baby, he could go to a class that will help him. Make sure you tell him that you love and care about him. If he is one of those stubborn people, you should get the closest person to him to talk to him. Someone who will touch him the most.
2007-03-15 17:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by k_carthran 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is her gf already pregnant?
if that so... they must tell it to thier parents as soon as possible because i think thier parents will help them in their problem beside the only thing that you can help w/ your friend is to advice him and her gf not to pursue to stop in their schooling.. and please they need guidance they are only teenager.. they get in that situation they must face all circumstances in their wrong doing.. im not after that what they did for sure they love each other but they're lock of safety in doing that love making in their age now...
2007-03-15 17:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by xladyx19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to planned parenthood and ask about options. they have many and shouldnt drop out of school. that would be the worst decision he could make.
2007-03-15 16:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by eunju 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
huh? ah ok, press the escape key on the keyboard of life.
2007-03-15 16:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋