Ilike my sisters BFF brother and im 10 and hes 16 I really really like him i dont want to get him in trouble and i dont want for people to me all mean to him if he dates me but...i like him and i want to at least be friends i see him ALOT and my sister and her BFF know i like him and so does the guy i like he thinks its "cute" but i want to be FRIENDS or a little more u know but hes 16 and hes thinking of other things like sex and all that what should i do???????????????
2007-03-15 16:40:48 · 16 answers · asked by Cool chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, the age difference would be a major problem! I mean, he might want a girlfriend who is in the same school as him. He might think it is "cute" now, but the relationship could end up badly. His friends might pick on you or they might abuse you. They will be into drugs and alcohol. If you do go out with him and stay with him he will be able to drink and all that and you wont. You might get into drunk driving and all that. I wouldn't do it.
I admit, i do have a crush on a guy who is 17 and i am 13, but i know it would never work out because of the age difference.
But...maybe when you are alot older things could work out! They may not work out now, but who says they wont work out later!!!!!
Good Luck!!! If you follow what you believe and not let what he wants intervere with what you don't want to do, follow your heart. Go your own way. If he is nice and respects you then i say go for it. Nothing is stoping you. but if he breaks you heart, there WILL be other guys!!!!! Don't worry! there will be plenty!
2007-03-15 16:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to have a crush on a cute boy...even a cute older boy. But in all honesty, any sort of romantic relationship with a boy much older than you (like this 16-year-old) is not going to work. Not only that, but if the relationship between you two were to become sexual....we're talking about breaking the law. You are still a child. A pre-teen. Sixteen-year-old boys are in another world---you're right, they ARE thinking about sex, and a girl your age doesn't need to be in any sort of sexual relationship.
Crushes come and go. You may be obsessed with this cute 16-year-old now, but soon enough you'll find a cute boy that's your own age. Then you can focus on building a relationship....a good friendship with him.
2007-03-15 16:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. You could get him in big trouble. You are only 10 years old and it is a crush. He probably doesn't feel the same about you. 16 year old boys are at a different level than you. If he does like you he needs help. That would make him a pedophile.
2007-03-15 16:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by momof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh well you can get him into alot of trouble so lay off its ok to be friends but not a relationship your too young to date 16 year olds but maybe 10 or 12 years would be fine dont try to get what you cant have and if that guy thinks its cute than hes not gonna take you seriously anyways but i cant even get a guy older than me im not ugly you just keep asking questions and ill be glad to answer im not too older than you and im a tom boy
2007-03-15 16:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by jones_soda_co._lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kinda normal. You just have a crush on him. next week, you'll have a crush on another guy. More than likely, he only sees you as a little sister. it's ok to have crushes just don't think that anything is going to happen between the 2 of you.(he's way too old, you're a bit young to be 'dating') go enjoy being a kid.
2007-03-15 17:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by nicole r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby doll at 10 a 16 year old is a little to much.So if its up to me i say you just forget about him you need some one 13 to the most Your moving a little to fast for your age
2007-03-15 16:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by mz.atl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be worrying about boys at the age of 10. Damn...you barely turned into double digits. Aren't you still in elementary school. Lil fast ***. Slow down. Don't be a lil hooker. You are far too young to be worried about being "more than a friend" wit a guy. Yo mom need to whop yo ***.
where would you go on a date? Chuckie-cheese or Disneyland?
2007-03-15 16:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're too young to date. I may sound old, but I'm actually just a few years older and had a lot more experience. So, trust me, dont date at this age.
2007-03-15 17:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by skinny piggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are acting too old for your age. You are only 10. You will meet a whole lot more guys before you are 16 years old. It is illegal for this to even exist. Stop it!
2007-03-15 16:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by Mir3lla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only 10 you should not be worrying about boys- you need to work on your education, sports, and friends!! Where are your parents? I would hope they would not allow this..I also think in most states this would be illegal as far as the ages go.
2007-03-15 16:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋