one day he wants to then the next he says i'm rushing
2007-03-15 16:36:56 · 28 answers · asked by Shenika S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
leave the guy. make him miss you so much, he will want you back, forever.
2007-03-15 16:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Guess Who? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello: You better slow your roll. Trust me, pressuring does not help. To be frank, no one can make anyone marry them. If you continue to put him under pressure, he might leave you. Stop the pushing and let him come to you and ask your hand in marriage. You don't want to pressure him into marriage which could lead to problems later. He will probably blame you for pushing him into something he didn't want to do in the first place, so be careful. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-03-16 12:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lace Front Wig Lady of Houston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make your bf marry you and would you really want to make someone make that life long decision.
If he talks about it - it must be something he wants but that doesn't mean you should talk about it all the time or you will scare him off.
Maybe he said it out loud to see what you would say and how you would react.
Try not to talk about it everyday or you will end up pushing him away
2007-03-15 17:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. He's a person with a mind of his own. If he wants to, he will, if he doesn't, he won't. You can't force something like this, and you wouldn't want to either. You might be trying to push the issue, and he's saying he wants to on the days he wants you to shut up about it already. Just relax, if it's meant to be, it will happen.
2007-03-15 16:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a happy with him that is all that matters right now. Do not be "in love" with ideal of marriage be in love with the guy. If it is ment to be it will if not then you will find your way. In the mean stay busy and active in other things school,work, hobbies.Do not bring it up let him do it and when he does act nonchalant.
2007-03-15 17:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by Joy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to man land. You cant "make" him want to. Hes just in a transitional phase right now, where he thinks and knows he wants to, then he thinks why would i want to. Give him a while, if things continue to go well between the two of you, he get his **** straight, and ask you to marry him. If its like mine was, it will be in a snap, he all of a sudden knew thats what he wanted after 2 years of i dont knows and your rushing.
2007-03-15 16:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by ♥mama♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's nice that yall talked about marriage.
However, you can't force him to do anything. An ultimatum will not work. When he is ready to marry you, he will propose. Whether you are willing to wait for that moment is up to you.
It's best to enter a marriage when both are ready for it, not with one ready and the other one forced into it.
2007-03-15 17:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be married more than he does that's never a good starting point. Making someone want to marry you ...why would u need to. Better for it to happen naturally or not at all. If he won't commit like that...find someone who will.
2007-03-15 16:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by angel_jm83 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you "make" him want to marry you, it just aint gonna work. I was thinking that perhaps you should tell him how you feel on this issue, then hope for the best.
2007-03-15 17:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by LuckyJack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push him. If you love him, just be patient. Pushing will only drive him to take longer. Also, you do not want to feel like he married you because you forced him.
2007-03-15 17:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont if he doesnt want to marry you than your just gonna mess yourself up and you cant make a guy want to marry you what if he doesnt want to spend the rest of his life with you
2007-03-15 16:44:54 · answer #11 · answered by jones_soda_co._lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋