Im always alone and the friends that I have know aren't really good friends. I don't want to talk to anyone new,but my old friends say stop being emo when I sit by myself. And I don't know what to do! help
2007-03-15 16:22:36 · 10 answers · asked by ~~~~~~******* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u start to mingle... dont let urself bein alone..join a club perhaps.. or if ur a religious type of person,there are lots of organizations that will help u stir up ur faith and help u find friends... so, be careful in choosing friends ok cuz im not juz talkin bout ordinary friends here but the REAL one...
2007-03-15 16:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by walaahk 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You obviously are having a rough time. You should get more involved in outside actvities. You may not want to talk to new people, but that really is basically the only way you make friends. You should do things after school like art class or sports. Whatever you want. You can meet people with the same interest as you. At least that way you will have something in common and things to talk about with each other. It may seem scary and annoying to make friends, but you will really benefit from it in the future. You won't be alone on Friday nights all by yourself. You will be much happier if you have friends!
You should also try hanging out with a different group of friends at school. The "friends" you have now obviously aren't great ones. Try sitting next to someone new or just talk to someone. Ask if you can sit with them at lunch. A laugh can also start some friendships.
If none of this works, or you just go to a small school with not a lot of options for friends, than transfer. If you are able to anyway. Maybe a bigger school would be bigger because you would meet and know more people.
Hope this helps!!!!!!
2007-03-15 23:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably have more friends than you know.
Some people would call others their "friend" just because they say "Hi" each morning they meet in the elevator.
Others are a bit more selective.
Maybe try and be more superficial about it because most people dont have "true" firends and are doing fine anyways.
2007-03-15 23:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by ganja_claus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a pet! Sometimes animals are more moral and humane than people! This might help you to get through it until things work out and you can actually meet people who are actually decent.
2007-03-15 23:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
start slow, if u wating in a line, say hi, if they say hi back, try to start a converstation. and so on, so on. and another thing, if u don't like ur friends, don't be with them. if there not good friends
2007-03-15 23:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by Sketch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem i hate my lunch period because i sit by myself while everyone else sits around a table full of kids
i talk to some people but they have their group of friends that i could never be part of please add me to your messenger joekluntz@yahoo.com
2007-03-15 23:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some confidence built up in yourself.
If you think on negative things..... negative things happen.
If you think on more positive things... more positive things happen.
YOU ARE JUST AS GOOD AS ANYONE ELSE!!!!!!!
REMEMBER THAT!!!!!
2007-03-15 23:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Kings Child 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get out there party!,Open up!
Live a little!
2007-03-15 23:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by Cadence 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you type that character under your avatar, it's really neat.
2007-03-15 23:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by the slightly amusing answers of 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this sounds exactly like me... I have no friends....
2007-03-16 17:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by gardenia33_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋