She has had this friend who only wants her for friends with benefits and she said she loves him and he don't love her he has an ex wife and a gf three kids with the ex wife and two kids with the gf. I don't know what to tell her to get it through her head that he does not love her and he will never love her. I just found out she had her first lesbian sexual experiance. I think it just made her more confused and hurt and Heart broken. She and i have been like sisters since the ninth grade. She is my besy friend and my sister. She does not understand why we are all trying to help her.
2007-03-15 16:10:40 · 9 answers · asked by angels192002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First thing is first. She needs to get a grip on things. Her life is in a shamble. What he heck is she thinking getting involved with a mna tha has been married with kids, has a girlfriend with kids. Don't this show that he isn't really a responsible man in the get go if he is cheating on his girlfriend with her. First of all it shoows that he is a pig not a man and is out after a piece of *** not love.She is blinded by the sex he doesn't want her just her *** and he will move on to anothe piece of *** until his girlfriend catches hm then the children will suffer for this dumb asses mistake. As far as her lesbian relationship goes maybe it will show her that love comes from many different places and ways and might make her forget about this loser. I don't encourage a bi-sexual relationship but at the same time I would support her and her life style if it made her whole inside again. She needs to seek a true counceler you know a preacher or preachers wife to help out with this. She obliviously has some issues that have to had lead to this relationship with this guy in the first place and needs guidence and theraopy. Maybe reasons beyond what these people can understand whoare answering this question.
2007-03-16 01:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by notligcm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First she need to leave the boy/friend she is messing around with because he got other things going on plus he's just using her and she don't need that stress on her.about the lesbian thing if she feel another women can treat her better maybe she should try it out I guess. Tell your friend it's no reason to love someone if there not going to love you back
2007-03-15 16:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by mz.atl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We went to severe college mutually and became close (many, some years in the past!) and she or he's rather efficient and fortunate (financially)...large abode, large profession, wealthy husband, massive city. and that i, on the different hand am a stay-at-abode mom (low earnings) in a small city, quite a few hours from her. interior the direction of the years and those forms of modifications she has by no ability taken care of me any in yet differently than a suited buddy. She invitations me places usually, and constantly includes me in her kinfolk events, holidays, etc. i think like she's extra effective than a chum, she's like my close kinfolk!! She even tells me usually how she envys "me"... using fact i'm getting to stay abode with my youngsters and function an ordinary existence. humorous how we are able to be living such extremely distinctive situations, yet be so close and understand one yet another so nicely!
2016-10-18 12:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by arleta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, it is time for intervention!! Please invite her out for coffee or a soda and then go for a walk together... You have GOT to tell her that she is compromising everything she believes in, for what? She obviously does not have any respect for herself. Tell her YOU DO and she needs to get hers back! She is so much better than this, why has she settled so low?!?!
Then try to find something of interest that you both can do on a regular basis, even if it's homework and stay close, don't give up on her. Whatever you do, don't stop trying...
2007-03-15 16:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the truth u should let her be let go through life lessons life lessons are the best teachers even though its not just hurtin u 2c her goin through this pain sumtimes we as bestfreinds have 2 take a step back n let them learn when she sees wha happens 2her n whe shes in more pain like the rejection part from that marry guy that also has gf shes gonna need ur shoulder thats when u step in
2007-03-15 16:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her go and experience what it's like to learn from her mistakes.
2007-03-15 16:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will learn on her own. We all live and learn from our own experiences.
2007-03-15 16:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree what a mess
2007-03-15 16:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by crengle60 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a mess!!
2007-03-15 16:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋