i might be pregnant and im only 13 though the father is about 30 something. wat do i do. hes married!with kids

Question

i was at his house for a party my mom was invited to i went inside to use the bathroom. when i came out he was just standing at the door. almost waiting for me.all i could do was smile at him. then as i was walking back down the hallway he grabbed me by my shoulders turned me around and just started kissing me.he kissed me into the nearest room and layed me down and started taking his clothes off. i couldnt do a thing about i knew it was wrong but it felt sooo good. i wasnt sure if he was wearing a condom or not. but i only lasted about 5-10 min. and nobody knows but me and him. wat to do.

Answer 1

First TELL your mother...This man raped you and deserves what ever the law does to him. It wasn't your fault, he is a child molester and a rapist....Run don't walk to your mom NOW and tell her the whole story.......Please Please Please

Answer 2

honey thats statutory rape! im your age and if i were you i would take my best friend or someone i could trust in any situation and go get a home pregnancy test. trust me you're gonna want a friend there with you.whether or not you are actually pregnant you should tell your parents because something should be done about this guy. even if he was drunk during this he still is not fit to be a parent hes a freaking pedofile!!!
even tho it felt good it wasnt and you know it....not that you have to believe the same thing i do but i believe that sex should be between people that truly love each other and i could really careless about the a persons age when they are active or whether or not they are married but they should be LEGALLY in a relationship! tho in that last sentence i didnt mean to make it sound like i was blaming you cuz i wasnt its that bastards fault!

i wish u the best of luck!

Answer 3

OK listen first of all i am not by any means blaming you for this. your story unfortunately happens everywhere and the odds are r NOT pregnant. you should be fine but first tell your parents and get to a Doctor. he raped you and he really used you. i know you are scared but if u don't do anything then this will happen to others and maybe u again. not only are you doing whats right for you but ur doing whats right for all the other teens out there. please tell you parents and the police. then go to a Doctor and make sure everything is OK. IF he did get you pregnant then i would say A) if he is in the possession of the cops already then he is in BIGGER trouble and B) I'm positive you can sue hI'm for an abortion or whatever you need. you said this guy has kids well more then likely he is raping them too. im not trying to scare you i promise but maybe if someone starts fighting against this type of thing we can stop it from happening. I think i speak for everyone when i say we want to see him in jail and we are all praying for the best. if you do get him arrested i would actually like to hear so I'm going to leave my e mail u don't have to tell em anything but if you do i would love to hear the news everything is OK and he is in jail so my email is [e-mail]. and I'm praying for the best.

Answer 4

I am about your age also. If you would, please print this out and show this to your Mom. If you feel unconfertiable telling your Mom, then I'd suggest you try getting some alone time with a reliable family member and tell them. I do not belive that a person who is underneath the age of 18 can by birth control, either. If you Mom took you, it isn't realy your fault just for tagging along with her. I would NEVER feel safe telling my Mom as she is very short fused... I am quite sure that your Mom will understand greatly. Make sure you tell her the truth and not lies, cause thoose arn't going to get you anywhere in a thing like this. Oh, and if your liek me, someone who's waiting for sex untill mariage, your Husband shouldn't realy care if a man raped you, because you can't help it...

Answer 5

Ummmm, you were RAPED, honey, whether you enjoyed it or not. You need to tell your mother. What were you doing at a party your mother was invited to anyway? This man needs to be charged with what he did to you. I'd be telling his wife too. I don't think she'd be too impressed. Did you know you're a MINOR, or were you too busy throwing yourself at a 30 year old man to know that? Where was your mother when this happened, passed out, drunk somewhere? I find it hard to believe you don't know if he had a condom on or not. When and if your period is about 2 weeks late, (you do know what a period is, don't you?) do a home pregnancy test. If it's positive, you need to tell your mummy that she's going to be a grandmother. Then you need to decide whether to either have your pregnancy terminated or get in touch with an adoption agency. If it's negative, thank your lucky stars and get yourself a lawyer and some birth control if you are going to continue having sex with men more than twice your age. No matter what anyone in here says, you ARE too young to raise a child. If you're stupid enough to let a 30 year old man rape you, and not SEE that that's what it was, then God help any babies you bring into the world. Sorry love, but you're A KID, you're too young and uneducated to be having a baby of your own.

Answer 6

I know you said it felt good or whatever and you physically didn't want it to stop, but girl, you're only 13, same age as me, you don't need to worry about whether it was right or wrong. Do you know that if a male older than 18 has sex with a girl younger than 18 it's considered rape, even if the girl was completely accepting and willing? You need to tell someone now, not after you find out you're pregnant. I'm not trying to scare you, but you've become an easy target. You didn't push him away last time, and he knows that you won't now. Please, tell someone as soon as possible.

Answer 7

that's achieveable so you could be pregnant by way of fact adult males produce pre-*** that can nevertheless incorporate sperm, in spite of the reality that its enormously no longer likely. i'd recommend doing yet another attempt and if adverse then verify you place a condom on from the word bypass. while you're pregnant, raising a touch one is complicated, i'm nineteen and that i hit upon it complicated at circumstances, so at 13 i think of you will war lots as you're nevertheless a infant your self. additionally telling your mom and father would be complicated and that they are going to probable be indignant yet they're going to be waiting to help you and assist you're making a decision this is splendid for you and the child. yet verify you're one hundred % beneficial until now you do tell them and be extra careful next time.

Answer 8

Honey this is considered rape. The first and most important thing to do is tell your parents. If you feel like you cant tell your parents talk to a responsible adult you trust. Don't let this go. He can get in a heck of a lot of trouble for this. Even if it felt good to you at the time you are still young and he took advantage of that. I'll be praying for you. Good luck!

Answer 9

omg scary. i think you need to talk to a councilor. you need to clear it up with yourself because you must be extremely confused right now. you need to do what you feel is right but you should really be taking to the police about the charge of rape. he is an absolutely disgusting man! i am only 13 and i haven't had sex yet but no would should have to go through that when you are only 13 let alone it being to a 30 year old. i am sorry if anyone finds this offensive but i have extremely strong views about adults having sex with children.

Answer 10

Get a pregnancy test. If it's positive, get yourself to the nearest abortion clinic. If your parents can handle it and not explode at the fact that you had sex tell them to help you out. But if you want to do it discreetly there are tons of sites on the internet that offer abortion services without your parents knowing, such as their number not appearing in the telephone bill ans things like that. But make sure that you dispose of the pregnancy stick properly and don't ever leave it out in the open. Hope I helped. But you should SERIOUSLY tell ur parents, this is called rape and that man needs to be thrown in jail. If you tell your parents just think, you'd be able to stop this child rapist and put many other future victims out of his grasp.

Answer 11

A 30 something year old man and a 13 year old girl is considered rape or at very least statutory rape and it's wrong on so many different levels. You need to tell an adult so he can be punished for what he did. As for you possible being pregnant when you discuss it with an adult mention that possibility and they can help you.