who showed be more romantic the wife or the husband?

Question

i love my wife and she loves me i know she loves me with all her heart, but sometimes i feel like i show more feelings to her than she does to me . for example in a week i think i tell her i love her more than she tells me. when i talk to her about it she gets sad and sometimes starts to cry because she says its not true. or when i call her i like her to say hi baby or something , dont get me wrong she does say it , but not as much as me. need opinions

Answer 1

Some people do not easily express their feelings. Often they did not grow up in a home where I love you was said often. There is no rule as to who should be more romantic in a relationship...if it could be 50/50 would be ideal but that does not happen often. Try not saying I love you to your wife as much and see if she notices. Sometimes people think saying I love you or other things is a "knee jerk" reaction...it is said so often it starts to loose it's real meaning. I hope this helps you.

Answer 2

Both partners need to remind themselves to be loving and kind to their better half. Even though the love is there, sometimes life is so hectic that we begin to take our spouse for granted. Everyone is different in the ways that they express love. Some are more aware and giving. Some of us were not given much love or demonstrations of love as children, so we aren't good at showing it and its really hard for us to say those kind of things.

Be patient...as long as you receive the expressions, however seldom, you know that you are loved in return. You simply cannot expect another person to be just like yourself. But you can continue to be yourself and continue being affectionate and romantic without expecting to receive it back the same way. It will not hurt a thing! :-)

Answer 3

Dont be so sensitive. Us ladies deal with much worse when it comes to men.
She loves u. I am the same way and just have so much else going through my mind that sometimes I let it overwhelm me.
Dont stop telling her. U dont want to be vindictive in that aspect. Just be ok with the fact that she loves u very much but may not be as vocal about it as u r. She may teach herself to be more vocal eventually, but until then, dont question her love for u.
Good luck to u.

Answer 4

Does it really matter whose more romantic? Being married is about a partnership it's not a game you are playing. No one is keeping score or at least you shouldn't be.

Answer 5

how nice of you to keep score, and then to tell her about it.
shame on you for creating a problem where there is none.
you don't know how well off you are. keep up this kind of thing and you won't have anything to keep score on.

Answer 6

Antonio, first off your name is sexy and your look is sexy....i'd call you baby anytime....but besides that....something is totally going on in her life that you don't know about....she doesn't love you enough or is probably depressed or something....i'm not sure, i would seriously suggest a counselor as annoying as that may be....but something is totally wrong....i wish i was in her shoes, cause i feel like i'm the one who gives the most attention in my relationship....yeah...one day antonio, it'll be you and me :) loooool

Answer 7

stop being a baby go make passionate love to her!

Answer 8

I don't think it matters, I think your making a big deal over nothing.

Answer 9

The husband we are hunters they are gatherers

Answer 10

she probally loves you some people don't say it enough talk to her about it