2007-03-15 15:50:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anthony 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how many of you have the same problem . tell the truth .
2007-03-15 15:52:41 · update #1
Because you are the closest to us and therefore easiest to get to. Most of the time we don't mean it. We just need to vent and you guys just happen to be the closest person...and in some cases the one person we trust the most. Sometimes what we complain about in anger or fustration is just a mask for something deeper and we are just dumb enough sometimes to hope that you can read our minds. But in the end the make up stuff makes it all worth it don't it?
2007-03-15 18:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK The fact of the matter is men
We get upset over things that most men wouldn't give a second thought to and yes men mainly are the problem....:-)
Sorry for the generalisations but its bloody true
2007-03-15 16:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When women express problems they want emotional support, when men hear problems they want solutions. Because you cannot find solutions you blame yourself and because you do not give support but look for solutions she blames you.
I never make a fuss because my wife forgets to put the toilet seat back up when she is finished because I have a solution fr that problem. Women don't need solutions, only support.
2007-03-15 19:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be that you automatically take blame when she's just venting. It's a difference in communication. She's complaining and you are thinking of what you have done to cause the complaint or what you can do to fix it. Sometimes, she doesn't need it fixed, she just needs to talk about it. Next time you feel at fault, you could ask her: "Is there something I can do to make it better?" If she says no, then you know she just needs you to listen. And in that case, it's not your fault.
2007-03-15 16:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by Marina D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my wife, but please tell me why women always blames the males for everything that happens under the sun.? Hey!!! You sound like a husband!
2007-03-15 15:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Buckwheat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it is always the mans fault. it has alway been the mans fault and it will always be the mans fault. the sooner you come to grips with this the sooner you can get a good night's sleep. some things just can't be explained ( the thoughts of a woman will never be explained) " If a man says something in the forest and there is no woman around to hear him say it is he still wrong"
2007-03-15 15:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Wayne G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of us blame males. Some of us take responsibility for our own actions.
2007-03-15 15:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by dannykel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, if she is unhappy, you need to find out what is bothering her, get to the root of the problem before it destroys your marriage. My wife was unhappy and had an affair and left me after 18 yrs of marriage......I invited Jesus into my heart, He healed my broken heart, I am happy with myself......Jesus loves you.....pray for her.
2007-03-15 16:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a guy who likes to push the envelope but hates getting caught.
2007-03-15 15:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c 9 times outta 10, it is your fault and you did something to upset her. Just deal w/ it and move on.Plus its just easier to vent and yell at the people closest to you.Don't take it personal, my bf complains about it too, but the truth is WE'RE ALWAYS RIGHT, LOL.!
2007-03-15 16:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by NY Yanks Girrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋