My friend has recently begun hanging around some bad people in my school. I am scared that he/she is in grave danger. I am loyal to all of my friends and I feel he/she can be seriously hurt.What can I do? The people she hangs around with are harassing her. They look as if they are in a gang.
2007-03-15 15:41:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The real question here is; how much of a good friend are you? Are you good enough to end the relationship? If your really concerned with his/her well being than you should be talking with school counselors and parents. Maybe you can get them to agree not to indicate who told them of the problem; but, than you will have to live with the fact that your the one who told while she/he is angry for destroying his/her life, because; that's the way she/he will look at it. But, you should take comfort in knowing he/she is safe.. Good luck, and God Bless for being such a good friend with serious concerns. Keep up the moral heroism.
2007-03-15 15:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to understand the choices she is making can disrupt her life, and set bad examples for others, including yourself.
Don't ignore her, she's your friend. I would tell her, that your scared about her, and you would never want anything bad happening to her, and that you basically just care, maybe she'll understand. Give her or him a heart to heart talk. This is serious, this is a decision that needs to be made from her, not you. You can however, talk to her, and maybe make her change her mind about some things, but it's the way she plans out her life, not you, so don't
feel bad for what she/he is doing wrong,
Be thankful that you tried helping, and that's all you can do unfortuantly
2007-03-15 22:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by All I need is you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you are in middle or high school. If you think your friend is in danger of getting injured in some way, either physically or psychologically, you should notify someone who can help. Try a trusted teacher or school psychologist. You could always try talking to your friend, but often people are in denial about the seriousness of their situation. It is always better to have a friend get mad at you than to watch them get hurt. They will thank you later.
2007-03-15 22:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mia1385 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could try talking to your friend. If you are really good friends then they should find it important about how you feel about the situation. If you really worried maybe seek some help from someone higher if you talking to your friend doesn't work. They may hate you to start with but well appericate it in the end
2007-03-15 22:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by Nessie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do for your he/she friend....is to be there to support them. As for this "gang" you need to explain to her that it's not a good idea, she's/je
s goin down the wrong path in life and If I were you, I would let this person know how much trouble she can get involved in etc.
She /He?? should go to counselling to get through this.GOODLUCK*
2007-03-15 22:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your friend? I believe you can not help him/her unless you truly know what is going on. I suggest you start by telling him/her that you are there, no matter what and that if he/she needs help all he/she needs to do is say it.
If he/she is involved in gang activity you might need help. I do not know your age however parents are always the best help you can get.
I truly hope you can help your friend.
2007-03-15 22:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by chilanga26lasvegas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey tell your friend how you feel about her hanging around these people if she dont listen then just keep talking untill she gets it because what happens when she gets hurt or in truble with the law? well theres my answer to your ? thanks for you time!!
2007-03-15 22:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Glen 111111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell an adult from school that is cool and will help him or her. You need to get him or her alone and talk to him or her. Tie him or her don to a chair and force her to notice what he or she is getting into. Talk to her parents even if that will help.
2007-03-15 22:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a special effort to include her with you and your friends, even just hanging out.... LISTEN to her, she may have some issues she is having trouble with....
2007-03-15 22:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by Patricia D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god I feel so bad for you maybe you should sit and talk with your friend before its to late good luck
2007-03-15 22:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋