I'd like to have a sex partner on the side. I think I'm going crazy sometimes because of my desire to have sex. I even lust over a coworker on a daily if not hourly basis. I just would like to feed my desire without leaving or losing my wife. Any suggestions?
2007-03-15 15:29:10 · 15 answers · asked by Mr Hmmm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your wife doesn't like to have sex w/ you? I think I'd have a talk w/ her about that. I don't blame you for loving sex it's great. I think you guys should go to counseling before you get caught doing something you'll regret. I doubt you're going crazy it's perfectly normal to want sex. Get over this lust w/ the coworker. Good luck :)
2007-03-15 15:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 5 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Do you think that you would still be able to look your wife in the eye and make love to her if you did cheat? Have you talked to her about this? Are there certain things that you can do for her to maybe want it more? I know that I have the same situation and for me, it is the routine. I am just tired of the same thing everytime. I want some excitiement and so I too have considered having an affair, however, I just dont know if I could look my husband in the eye again. So, please think about it before you do anything. If you truly love your wife, try to work on this together. If you feel there is no hope, then maybe you should be single. That way you are very to do whoever, whenever. Good luck to you.
2007-03-15 15:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by oursnowbaby32 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First, do not act on your desire to have sex with someone else..it is cheating, people will get hurt and it's not worth it. You sound very highly sexed, you need to speak with your wife about your desire and then maybe the two of you can work out a schedule...a date night, time that is for just the two of you, make it about more than sex, meanwhile, take matters in to your own hands so to speak and relieve yourself the old fashioned way. You might see a counselor also to explore why you are this way.
2007-03-15 15:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by curious74432 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
guy, it extremely is annoying. some adult men think of they had like to have that subject yet i think for you. i'm no expert yet right this is what i think of. i think of you spouse has a intercourse habit of a few style. It the previous days, we noted females with those desires as nymphomaniacs. i think that in case you do no longer meet your spouse's desires, she might locate success someplace else. you will possibly be able to desire to communicate with a intercourse therapist. it could be which you would be able to communicate with your spouse and use toys, etc. instead to you having to accomplish each and every of the time. refer to her and confirm she knows you adore her and want her to be chuffed yet are having a annoying time retaining up along with her! actual seek for some counciling.
2016-10-18 12:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by arleta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put all that energy into making your sex life more exciting for your wife. She is probably bored to death and is needing something new in the bedroom. If you can't be bothered to put the work into your marriage then leave so she can find a REAL man...
2007-03-15 15:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have 3 words for you my friend - "Don't do it"
You will ultimately pay the price for those actions, and they could be loosing your wife... your own integrity as a man, be better than that.
I would suggest you talk with your wife, see why she is feeling that way, tell her your needs, and see if things can improve.
2007-03-15 15:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by smileyone 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Talk to your wife about the problem. Maybe there can be some middle ground for you two. There's no healthy alternative to this problem that won't cause problems for you.
2007-03-15 15:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your wife how you feel. Maybe you can spice things up with her so that she'll want to have sex more often.
2007-03-15 15:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by mightymight 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
am having the same problem may be you need to ask her what her desire is and go from there.
2007-03-15 15:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It might not be a bad idea to have your wife see a Dr. or a sex counselor to find out what her real problem is.
2007-03-15 15:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋