how common is it for women to cheat?

Question

When i was 22, I met a married woman at a bar/ club. She was older, but still relatively attractive and our personalities just clicked. she was out with her friends. seemed to be happy enough about her life, and wasn't outto pick up a guy - she was taken aback by the whole thing.

It turned into a romp in the back seat of her truck.

Now my wife is starting to go out with her freinds. Just dancing. And i beleive her. But could she, if the right guy . . . How often does it happen?

Now,

Answer 1

Man, karma's a $%@& isnt it?

Im not sure the exact statistics, but women are used to having to say no all of the time though, so its easier for us not to cheat.

She might just be going to have fun with her friends, or to make sure they stay safe.

Personally im married and I hate clubs. I always did though. Too much male testosterone flying around to fight off at once. If shes tough I wouldnt worry about it.

Id just take note of the time the bars close, ask her nicely how her night went...if she gets defensive she probably has something to hide.

Answer 2

As long as you are keeping your wife happy she shouldnt have any reason or want to cheat on you. You need to make sure that you are telling her things that she needs to hear and give her lots of good attention so she doesnt feel the need to get it elsewhere. Dont worry about her going out with friends...show her that you trust her completely and this will make her want to come home faithfully to you. If she knows that YOU are the right guy then you dont need to worry about her picking up some bozo in a bar.

Answer 3

I think that a lot of people simplify the matter. Most of people, who are happy in their relationship, don't feel the need to have sex with other people. Some people make mistakes if they are drunk or if they feel that they have run out of options and their relationship is lacking in intimacy and they have the need to fill that gap (which is not an excuse, btw.) What I am trying to tell you is that if you want your wife to be faithful - make sure she is happy and that you both can discuss any resolve any issue you may have. Why don't you go with her sometimes and dance? She would love it. Take some dance lessons if you are not great at it. Be creative!

Answer 4

Well I will tell you this.........being in the bar scene, drinking, dancing etc is the place that it will happen.

The atmosphere, the drinking, the dancing (someone paying attention to you) holding you close etc.........is the perfect place for that kind of thing to happen.
Especially if your mate doesnt show you the attention and the love that you crave.
Or if you don't feel that great about yourself.

Even if you have NO intention of it happening and you promise yourself and your mate that it won't.......it is still quite possible.
The bar scene is NO place for a married man or woman to be without their spouse.
If your spouse wants to go out drinking and dancing then YOU take her.
Believe me, she would probably rather go with you anyway.
All women crave attention from their guy so either go with her or take her yourself.

Better safe then sorry

Answer 5

Yeah, baby u cheated now u feel she can do the same thing. I bet u did not feel that way before. I hope you use a dick cover. Oh, Yeah she could do the same thing and some. Some woman know when their man has cheated too. Go do something nice for her right now: jewlry, flowers, vacation, etc. It happens all the time. Keep your vows. Repent sinner and i hope your marriage will endure this.

Answer 6

Dont worry just believe your wife, most women go out with friends for drinks and a good laugh. Not all women are whores. If you worry about your wife doing the same then it will start affecting your relationship. Women cheat when they arent satisfied from their partner (just make sure you are doing that).

Answer 7

first of all not all women cheat as just like not all men cheat. but the number one reason women cheat is their not getting what they need at home so if you and your wife have good communication in your marriage and your open with her then most likely she just needs time with the girls. but if your worried talk to her go out with her or just plain some fun time together to kick up the heat. but remember a women needs some time with the girls every now and then.

Answer 8

that cant be answered its like when wemon say "all men are dogs" or men saying "all women are bitches" the truth of the matter is a large amount of men and women even if they do not notice date the same "types" of people until unkowingly something clicks and they meet "the right one" for them.... and like the others sai you know your wife better you really can generalize....You really cant say all men are dogs if youve only dated 12 men and your other six freinds dated 6 men... yes thats alot of peole that thats not the entire population of men.... it cantbe said the other way around either... just because she doesnt want to give it up right away or you couldnt read the sighns to act quick enough means nothing.... i think i went off topic bt if some dude "slipped" it to her you should know... you should know by how she acts after you slipped it to her how she would act afterwards but thats not for everone once again it all depends on the perosn

Answer 9

Just be careful all I can say.
Yes women can cheat!
Just like a man there is no difference with gender.

Stay on the look out

Answer 10

well, if you trust her then you shouldent have a problem, but if you are still worried about it, then talk to her. tell her that you are not accusing her of cheating on you and you dont think that she ever would but explain what happened to you and tell her that you just want to be assured that nothing like that would ever happen with her. dont come in too agressive cuz you dont want her to take defense and get angry at you for accusing her of doing anything!!

i dont really kno how many women cheat on their husbands cuz im in high school, but i have heard that a lot do!

Good luck :)