If your wife accuses you of cheating and you are but you still want to deny it, how do you act when confronted about it, how do you treat her when discussing it? If you're accused and you really aren't cheating then what is your reaction? How do you treat her then?
2007-03-15 14:40:11 · 14 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can't say I have ever cheated so can only say how i think I would react. If accussed and I did then I think I would probably try to bluff- but I don't think I would be too convincing!! I know some men who would over react- angry sort off- like attack is best form of defence with the hope this would cower the questions or the loudness of the protest would be interpreted as innocence. Alas woman are not silly enough to buy it.
If I was accused and I wasn't cheating (which I don't) then I would remain focused, not angry, and try to work out why she thought I was cheating and to work through the matters. I think my reaction would probably be incredulous at first. To ignore could be fatal as it could cause the unnecessary demise of the relationship by fostering suspicion.
2007-03-15 23:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by kenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love your wife, you won't cheat. It's simple. Each man is different, but be warned...if you are going to accuse a guy of cheating...he just might go out and do it just to get the "benifits" of cheating if he's already in the doghouse. Now, the question should be answered by the other side.
2007-03-15 14:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by goldenfir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out the amount of drama in the response. If he is overly dramatic then he is cheating. Also if he accuses you of cheating in return then he is cheating.
OMG this could go on like a you might be a redneck if...
Anyway, if he is more hurt and doesn't understand why you would think that then more than likely he isn't cheating.
When my ex accused me of cheating I asked her why she thought that and it turned out she was cheating on me and just wanted to turn it around on me. So be careful how you approach him too or he may think that you are the one cheating.
2007-03-15 14:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were cheating on my wife and she accused me of it and I didn't want to admit it. I'd get defensive. And I would probably get angry and be rude to her.
If she accused me and I wasn't cheating, I would feel offended. And would be upset and be asking questions like why on earth would you ever think I was cheating?
2007-03-15 14:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether guilt or not I would dismiss the accusation as unreasonable doubt or paranoia. If I was guilty, but did not want to sacrifice the marriage for the affair, Id deny it. Likewise denying if I was not guilty.
If not guilty, I have to convince she's seeing thing that are there and continue to demonstrate that I want to live the rest of my life with her. I would do the same if guilty but didn't want to leave.
I would only confess if I wanted to leave.
2007-03-15 14:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by zax_fl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion would be on the accussing but not cheating part. With that said, it would bother me and i would ask her if she doesn't trust me. Now if she was to say the words that most wifes say, "I don't know what to think" then it would just make it worst and interest between each other would begin to fade away.
2007-03-15 14:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by orange_claw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell her!!!! It is not worth it in the end. I am a woman who had a husband cheat on her and had a baby with the other woman. I wish he would have sheltered me from this. It has been six years + and it still hurts. I wish he never would have told me, ever!!!
2007-03-15 14:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by gouda1988 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I really can't answer that question since I do not cheat on my wife
2007-03-15 14:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
got accused once, didn't do it, denied it, the acusations kept flying, i admited and left, then the truth came out a little while later and she wanted to talk, i stayed gone
2007-03-15 14:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not all men cheat....... but if he isn't cheating then he'd get scared.... if he was then he tries to deny it but look at his facial expressions and if he tries to think about it while your speaking to him....... im a guy and i haven't cheated on my girl i got sooo close to but i just couldn't see her broken hearted and besides how would i feel if my girl cheated on me...... goood luckkkk
2007-03-15 14:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by idont_know_sorry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋