how come when we break up with some one its hard to find others to talk with? i cant find anyone to chat with....
2007-03-15 14:17:58 · 10 answers · asked by drjayz_22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dont understand
2007-03-15 14:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chat with us on Yahoo! You know we females are a bit catty, and when ones no longer a half of a couple, and especially if one is fun and attractive the little radar goes up
for insecure indiviuals(smile) It also tells you about who are
your "true" friends, and if EVERYBODY'S GONE, then I'd say
good riddance it's time for a NEW circle of buddies and make sure you pick your friends more wisely.
In the maintime try going out to "new places or get a new hobby, or do a little church or volunteer work. When you helo
others it is it's own reward, and when you become more open
to the good vibes it brings, you'll attract better type people and meet that special someone looking for you!!
2007-03-15 14:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by peachiepie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the key is not to try so hard. Like they say, it's easier to find someone when you're not looking. If you have just gone through a break up, maybe it would be best to take some time for yourself. Too many people are not comfortable being alone...they need a significant other in order to feel competant and secure.
Good women are out there...you just have to sit back, be comfortable being alone for awhile...and let us find you.
Good luck to you!
2007-03-15 14:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly....I think it's because when you start to chat with someone and tell them you just broke up....they think you are going to talk on & on & on about your break-up. And that'd be a real downer. If you are going to talk about your break-up...then talk to your real friends. If you are going online to just chat...well...just chat. Strangers will shy away from your stories of heartbreak & sorrow.
But if you are looking to replace the person you broke up with...the next person you chat with will think they are your rebound.
Sucks, don't it?
2007-03-15 14:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe that you can find ANYONE to talk to on the net.
2007-03-15 14:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by han83b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people are too selfish to help others out.
2007-03-15 14:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you are having difficult times . All the best
2007-03-15 14:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by kevin d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to real people in real life...if you can't do that you have bigger problems than your online chat life
2007-03-15 14:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by Claire M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because you kept away from your friends and neglected them when you were happily attached then...
2007-03-15 14:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by purple L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
2007-03-15 14:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋