Lately I find myself at a place where I don't know which way to go (very confused). I dont' want to be depressed and sit at home. I've done that enough. I want to move forward, but which way?? I'm learning to let others help me, but I don't want to get hurt. I've been through enough and I'm very sensitive. That makes me want to isolate myself, but I can't do that either.
2007-03-15 14:12:25 · 4 answers · asked by kisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm at the Cross-Roads right now in my life do you want me to share it with you?
2007-03-15 14:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Angelina,
I can relate. You're right! If you sit at home and isolate yourself it will get harder and harder to get out and enjoy yourself with others. It's not a place you want to be.
If there is something that you REALLY REALLY like to do ( so that you will be more motivated to do it ) than you may want to join a group that will allow you to do that 'hobby'. For some people it may be reading, or cooking, working out, swimming, riding or playing cards.
Whatever it is that you really enjoy is what you may want to look into for clubs of some kind.
Another thing that really helps you feel good about what you're doing is volunteering. I know there are many many places that could really use the help of someone like yourself. Again, think about what your passion might be and join a community center... maybe you love kids... girl guides are always looking for volunteers... there are unwed, teenage mothers that could really use a friend, maybe a crisis center, church, whatever.
I know that if you get too used to sitting at home alone, that is what you'll end up doing... the longer you do it, the lonelier you get and the more hopeless everything feels.
It's not healthy for anyone to be alone.
Good luck.. and have fun !
2007-03-15 21:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I came to a crossroad, just ended a 20+ year marriage, never planned on divorcing so it brought me to unfamiliar territory, I turned to the Lord. I am a intelligent guy, have always had the answers but not in this case...I thought long and hard who could help me in my deepest despair...I was not a Church going person but began to attend a Church I became comfortable with and learned which path I should travel and am very happy today.
2007-03-15 21:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So get out of your shell and do something about it, quit feeling sorry for yourself and live life....we only have one better make the most of it
2007-03-15 21:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋