I'm a freshman in highschool and this junior asked me to Prom i like him as a friend, but he likes me more than a friend. I am not shy but lets say im not really good around upper classmen. I have never kissed or done anything. My school is a little smaller than public schools and pretty much the whole school knows. I don't want to be labeled as anything so im not really sure what to do! So should I ? HELP!!
2007-03-15 13:52:34 · 27 answers · asked by wondernever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
P.S. only Seniors and Juniors are aloud to go unless the under classmen are asked
2007-03-15 14:09:06 · update #1
go! it'll be fun.
2007-03-15 13:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by luxxx ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Kaitlyn, how ya doing. I think that you should talk this over with your parent or guardian. Myself, I believe that a high school freshman is too young to be dating a junior. If you decide to go ahead with it, then make sure that he knows that you are not interested in him other than as a friend. Have him pick you up at home and meet your parents and make sure you honor any curfews your guardians set. I think you would be better off going to the dance with a group of friends rather than as a date. Have Fun!
2007-03-15 21:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by The Hiker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should definitely go!!!! Have a good time. Who cares about what other people think. It will give you a chance to get out and do something fun. Plus, would you stay home wishing that you would have gone? Just have fun with your friends. You never know how much time you have left. None of us do. So live your life as if it were your last day.
2007-03-15 22:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by KU! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody knowing about this situation should not be your major concern. If you don't really want to go, don't go. This is your big day - your big event. The other thing is if you decide to go please, please, please, make sure that you sit down with this guy and let him know (look him in the face with no smile on your face and really make him know that you are serious) that you are just feeling friendship for him. And if he still wants to go, then go.
You do know that you could just decide to go alone....or with a group of friends if that would be better. It is about you have a good time after all...he might be interested in going in the group.
This is hard but it's one of the real life things that we all have to deal with. The only thing that you can do is be sure that you don't lie or mislead someone especially when there are 'feelings' concerned.
2007-03-15 21:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Goodmomma1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly go because i didn't went to my junior prom cause i was labeled as a freak . But i went to my senior prom but I didn't had no body to bring & everybody know i wanted a date & i asked .but they turned me down . I know u are freshmen & everything give him a chance . Scoop him out to see whats really up u dig. if he is a good person then holla at him . But don't turn him down just because your a freshmen & he's a junior . give him a chance just have your limits. Just say yes Peace & love .
2007-03-15 21:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by John G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A prom is not a marriage proposal...it's just a fun party that you get really dressed up for.
If it's OK with your parents.....get a pretty gown and all the other stuff & go have fun.
2007-03-15 20:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you should tell him you don't like the way he likes you and if he is okay with that you should go to the prom with him just as Friends and don't care about what other people think just do what you think is right good luck and have fun at your prom okay
2007-03-15 21:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by New Yorker Girl 516 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you SHOULD go and have a blast! prom as a freshman is the best! forget everyone else..dont do anything you dont want to and if people spread rumors forgetabout it...YOUR TRUE freinds will know that its all lies and thats all that matters..take advantage of highskewl and have a blast
2007-03-15 21:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't miss prom for the world however. make sure ur date knows how you feel and everyone else. also, Let ur peers give you a ride home just so they know w/o a doubt nothing happened!
2007-03-15 20:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by crystaltoshy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to prom with him just don't try anything with him if he allows. Find out who he really is and give him a try later once you get to know him.
2007-03-15 20:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by cloclo0688 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say yes.Unless he seems like an *** or something.I wouldn't pay much mind to all the high school worries,like thinking people will think you're a slut or something.
2007-03-15 20:55:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋