So, me and my husband (he's 42, i'm 22, we're in love, no comment), love each other.
I like when he touches me, because I like the affection. But lately he's been touching me more than usual, and in public. And he's a bit more agressive. Like, when he grabs my butt, he does it very firmly. I don't know how else to explain. I find this to be a bit uncomfortable. What should I do?
I don't want to offend him in any way.
2007-03-15 13:51:57 · 15 answers · asked by Singer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Bring it to his attention, and tell you you do not appreciate being disrespect like that out in public. Apparently he is trying to make sure that the public know you are taken.
The heck with offending him, what about him offending you.
Think about yourself first, never make it all about him.
He is disrespecting and doesn't care how you feel about it.
2007-03-15 13:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
His public displays are probably a way of conveying his verility to other men. At the same time, he is oblivious that it is demeaning to you. Get him to handle you tenderly, such as when he grabs your butt, stop him and get him to caress or fondle, rather than grab. By this means he will be able to communicate his bravado and you will enjoy a more pleasing touch.
2007-03-15 21:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by zax_fl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to do this in the privacy of your home or when u r alone and that it makes u uncomfortable when he does it in public.
Tell him the truth. U know what u like and what u dont.
Just be honest with him, hes ur husband and deserves to know how u feel about things.
GOod luck hun.
2007-03-15 20:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you love all the touching and affection, but could he be just a little more gentle with it because he hurts you sometimes.
2007-03-15 22:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably want to make sure that everyone knows that you are his property and if it makes you feel uncomfortable then talk to him you shouldn't have to feel that way just because you're married... If he cant deal with that and if he cant respect how you feel then....well then thats your business.
2007-03-15 21:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by babyk_150 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you would rather avoid the PDA and have all the touching and grabbing at home
2007-03-15 21:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by hailesellase 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are so physical. My husband views me like I am a walking steak and I have it. I told him. Tell him to look at you for you, as a person, not sex object. Unfortunately, most men will view women as sex objects. Sadly, it is there nature.
2007-03-15 20:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Eyed Angel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Discuss your feeling on uncomfortable and required he be "nice" in public.
2007-03-15 21:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by awkf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sprinkle some saltpeter on his food.
2007-03-15 21:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by Q.A. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um thats your husband? You should feel comfortable enough with him to talk to him about it. If you don't.....thats not good......
2007-03-15 21:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by redsoxmom1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋