2007-03-15 13:47:46 · 16 answers · asked by skeetw05 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Mom, Dad...I'd like you to meet my future "baby-momma". HeHe!!! Just do it, everybody needs to get over the whole color thing already.
2007-03-15 14:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by cammi1313 2 · 0⤊ 6⤋
You shall find there is no easy way to do such thing. You shall have much to ward off!
Tell me-Why do you seek it to be easy and simply not lovingly done. Why not arm yourself in knowledge for all you shall have to endure on this venture your heart has led you on? Are you true to this woman? I am interested to know your view on being racist & prejudice? You must know this could bring upon much grief.
Has she told her parents is my question also my concern. Has her community accepted "YOU??~!
You must understand she is my concern not you nor yours. I pray this is not egos. Do you know you have much to handle by this question you are not ready for her to meet your parents nor to call her your girl friend you show no sincerity at all nor are you at all sure on the path you have taken! For this leave this alone for now and let time alert you for this is not the proper time - patience is calling listen to it!
I mean no harm, only intend to wise you up on all of this!
Here's where you fail you in intentions and I must correct also shed light on this which you have slept on! IF she is worth having why must this be easy for you or yours. Also you can wise up the many if you can educate also bring about a change with your people concerning the black race. And most importantly ACCEPTANCE of all things living and non- living!
2007-03-15 14:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by wise 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Describe her and all of her traits before they meet her. Talk about her interests and skills, what a great person she is. Let them know as much as possible about her as a person before telling them about her race. Do NOT just show up with her without having told them, that might provoke a negative reaction and she might be very hurt.
Another idea is to drop clues that you are gay. When they are totally convinced that you are gay, won't they be relieved to find out that you have a girlfriend, LOL.
Seriously, it was hard for my inlaws to accept that I was white. They got over it, you know they always do.
2007-03-15 13:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by greengo 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
To spare your girlfriend possibly getting her feelings hurt or being offended by your family you may want to give your family a heads up before you introduce them. That way they you will know how they will react to her and you won't have to put her through any racist remarks that may be made.
Best of Luck and Congratulations on breaking the cycle of racism in your family.
2007-03-15 13:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
Maybe just try telling your parents that it's not about color, and you love her and it's all about what's on the inside not the out! So if you like her, you just have to tell your parents, it's what is on the inside not the out, and they may turn out to like her! Good luck! I bet they will understand the way you feel!
2007-03-15 13:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ElizabethAnne♥ 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
OUCH! Well your age will play a big factor. Make sure they know all of her good points and qualities. Make sure they know that she makes you happy and she's good to and for you. Don't wait too long to tell them. Tell them BEFORE you actually bring her over--to avoid any embarrassing situations. Ask them to give her a chance before they form an opinion. And last ask them to see her for WHO she is and NOT the color of her skin. Good luck
2007-03-15 13:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by Duchess20 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
have 10 non discrimnating cops watch you introduce your girlfriend to your parents as they watch.
2007-03-15 15:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to tell yr parents about her eg what she does how long u guys known each other etc.. at least they wont get a shot at the dinner table.. gd luck
praying for u ~
2007-03-15 14:03:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Don't subject her to demeaning abuse if you are not sure about her. Otherwise If you love her enough they will surely see that and get pass her skin. I hope they are not closed minded people.
2007-03-15 14:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by nana 1 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Hmmmmmmmmmm...I...don't...know...KHAN!
2007-03-15 16:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by ~Mmmkay?~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to explain to them that you love this and convince them that she is a nice and they should look pass her color because love knows no color!!! Hope it helps!! :]
2007-03-15 13:52:28 · answer #11 · answered by prettyting 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋