i found out my husband started cheating on me when i was 7 months pregnant and i threw him out. we then one month later tried to work it out but he just didn't want to so 4 days after the baby was born my husband asked for a divorce. I filed on the 18th of February and they called him to pick up his paperwork. Come to find out he just picked it up on monday the 12th of March. if he wanted the divorce so bad then why did it take him so long to get the paperwork? he blew his child off (twice) to go on a date with his 17 yr old mistress and he spent $250 on her and has not spent 1¢ on his child, so i took his child away from him and he still is taking his sweet time to put in a answer.
what type of person is this??
does he not care about his daughter?
2007-03-15 13:47:38 · 15 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is just a gentle nuge to grt you headed in the right direction until you can really see the whole picture. I know
this may sound cold, but this is a voice of experience, stop
focasing your attention on "him and her" and get back to what
is really important---your baby!
RUN-----RUN---as fast as you can and obtain a child support order, because from what you are saying it is in the best intrest of your baby. No matter what he is doing or "WANTS"
to do your baby must come first. She needs diapers, wipes,
shampoo,formula,baby wash, baby powder,YOUR FULLY
undivided attention, love and care, and you can use your
time loving and caring for your child better when you don't have to worry about being able to have the things she needs.
He will get what's coming to him in the long run, if you don't
believe in a higher power, then you can rely on FATE taking
care of that, because he's too stupid to realize the wonderful gift he's been given,that is his problem, life has a way of evening out the wheat from the chaff!!
I hope you will also take good care of yourself, and surround
your little family with good friends, positive people,and lovedones. Good luck and take care.
Good Luck and take care!
2007-03-15 14:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by peachiepie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The term LOSER comes to mind. He obviously doesn't care about you or his child, so you are better off without him. Stay away from him, wait until your day in court. Build up a good case against him, and let him spend all the money he wants on his new mistress....because after you get done with him in court, he isn't going to have any money to spend on her at all. Take him to the cleaners, he is a jerk...you are much better without him.
2007-03-15 13:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, i dont think he cared. Maybe he does but he`s not realizing it right now. He prolly didnt really care about the divorce because he got other females. And he is just a jerk and an as*hole. he dont deserve you or your baby. Poor thing, she`s only a baby and her dad already treating her that way. Be strong for you and your child. One day he`ll need you both but you`re not gonna need him. What comes around goes around remember?
2007-03-15 13:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by honeyy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Immature is all there is to it. He has no idea what responsibility is or does he care too. Kick him to the curb. Unfortunately it is probably best for you and your child that he stays away until he grows up b/c he will just keep causing you pain. I wouldn't think that he was reconsidering your marriage just b/c he took his time to get to the paperwork.
2007-03-15 13:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by cat12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say to typify a cheater would be difficult when gaining insight on the situation from the one who was cheated on. He most likely does care about his daughter..if he doesn't, I would typify him as a "toilet paper person"..one whose only destiny is to be used to clean up excrement, flushed, and forgotten. When children are involved, Hatred MUST be displaced for the sake of decency, No matter what decisions the adults made. Maybe he is indecisive and wants you back?
2007-03-15 13:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Husband = Dead Beat
Use your resources and take his sorry but to court to get that child support. How dare he spend $250 buck on a piece of azz but not a dime for his child??
Be glad that you are rid of him and work on making YOU a better person. Remember, Doing well is the best revenge. If you still have baby weight...get rid of it.
If you are stuck in a dead in job...get into school.
Get a new do'.
Good Luck!!
2007-03-15 13:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a very sad situation...Your husband thinks of no one but himself...and by his actions he thinks nothing of his daughter...You did the right thing by taking the child away while you and she are still young...There are many nice and respectable men out there who would love to have you and your daughter and treat you like you deserve to be treated....Good luck to you and your new daughter...
2007-03-15 13:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by foxygirl29303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a grade A jerk. Let him go and file for divorce yourself. If you or your daughter were priorities he'd be there. I'm sorry for your circumstance and good luck with your life. It sounds like you and your child deserve sooooo much better than that.
2007-03-15 13:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt go that far but if thats the kind of dad he's going to be then your probably better off raising her on your own its hard enough not having a father figure but having one who doesnt care is even worse believe me i know from experience
2007-03-15 13:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by i love mario !!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immature,irresponsible,inconsiderate,.....He is not think of you or your child so you must be mature enough,...and strong enough to move on...let him go.....think of your baby..go straight to the child support enforcement and make him spend more then one cent....make him be responsible..
2007-03-15 14:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋