i don't know but i have a feeling i may marry someone about 15 years older than me.
2007-03-15 13:24:26 · 29 answers · asked by N E G R O P L E A S E 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hell no! If you are good together, why not? My Mom is 10yrs older than my step-dad and they are great together. Its like the song "Age ain't nothin but a number."
2007-03-15 15:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Ian and Tate's Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
As I've said many times on this site, Love is hard enough to find in this life without limiting your options by physical things like race or age.
At the age I am (40), I find that 15 years is too great a difference when it comes to the person's stage of life, so it's not likely something that I would do. But if you are both consenting adults and share the same core values and truly love each other then go for it!
2007-03-15 13:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PFFT!! who are we to judge what u do with ur love life!, im telling u right now once u find that person u wont care if they are 20 years older..maybe on the long run u will wish that they were physically as healthy or as ACTVE as u ....if u no what i mean , but love goes thru anything and honestly, sometimes it could cause a few problmes because of the life experiences and the maturity but thats inside the relationship outside of it, nothing or nobody matters, be happy.
2007-03-15 13:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by v.n.d <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well--that's up to you--No--I would not judge a couple who had a 15 year age difference...the interesting thing is--you are noticing it--so obviously it is on your mind--you should ask yourself what reservations you have and why you think others would care who you marry or what age they are...and why you would even care what others think....You may be telling yourself you don't care--but you must care a bit or you wouldn't be asking this question--maybe your doubts are really about something else in the relationship? If not--then just do what you want--and be happy--good luck:)
2007-03-15 13:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Shay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck, if you do. Nothing wrong with a 15 year age difference. There's a 22 year gap between my brother and his wife
2007-03-15 13:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell to the NO , honey if you love this person. Go for it! Age does not matter when true love is involved. Your relationship is sturdy, reliable, trustworthy, love, romance. If you can trust you have it made, that is the foundation of any relationship, no matter what age. Go get him honey, and don't let anyone try to per-sway you different.
2007-03-15 13:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by red29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldn't. My parents had a 20 year difference. And then there were those people on Dr. Phil, they had a 30 year difference I think!
2007-03-15 13:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by xoLoveMaexo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion we don't have the right to be judgemental on anybody and for those who do judge other people, they are not worth the time of day.
I say if you are truly in love with that person and you are ready for the commitment then go for it- don't let anybody else sway your decision.
Best of luck :)
2007-03-15 13:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to judge you at all. If it works for both of you then it works. Generational issues may be a snag but if you are both willing to work on them then you can over come them.
2007-03-15 13:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Stone One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since my two best relationships (prior to this one) were with guys more than 20 years older than me, I would be happy for them.
2007-03-15 13:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by Phartzalot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋