I was talking to my daughter on the phone when I overheard her bf say "if theres not a lot of girls there it'll keep the fights down". WHAT?! I was hoping the party was fulll of friends! I guess some of my daughters friends are rivals over boys. Now what should I do if an argument starts, then intensifies, no one listens to me...remember were taking them to my house 2 hours ONE way from their homes. I never thought this might be a problem! The girls are already invited & I'm to pick them up tomorrow!
2007-03-15 13:15:31 · 3 answers · asked by HeavenlyAngel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Have the rules of the party told before you get the girls into the "shuttle" vehicles! You might even want them to sign a "contract" to get a long while at your house. In the contract have the parents sign & their daughter that the parent may be called if their child STARTS a fight. This might cut that out b4 it even gets started. Explain to them that you want this to be a good memory for ALL, not just for THEM. That if any physical contact is made in anger you will call the POLICE & have them arrested for assault! Their parents can pick them up in JUVI! All this should "scare them all straight" & let them know your a NO nonsense parent! GL
2007-03-15 13:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a teenager and believe me starting a fight at a party would be lame. don't worry about it let things run its corse. if a fight happend just simply step in the middle of them pull one of the girls aside and say that if they dont stop they'll have to leave
2007-03-15 13:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attempt to calm them down, if it escalates, threaten to call the police, if it continues, actually call the police.
You have to strike a delicate balance between maintaing order and maintaining your relationship with your daughter.
2007-03-15 13:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by DonSoze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋