my wife of ten years wants a huge dildo. not only that but all the sex toys she wants are huge. does this mean that i'm not big enough for her? or is there something else i just don't know about women? she says she's satisfied with me and that i am huge to her but is she really just saying that for my benifit while knowing that she is not satisfied and wants the toys so that she can be satisfied? help
2007-03-15 13:01:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
As a straight married woman I would have to say that I prefer the real thing or my husbands hands/oral sex over my vibe. I do however like to use my vibe sometimes when I am having sex with him and other times when I don't have access to my husband!
If she wants a dildo then let her get one. You won't be replaced by it.
2007-03-16 08:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be so self-deprecating. Your wife is telling you the truth about you, but she is also an adventurer and explores sex to its fullest potential. So don't get discombobulated over that. Just accept it and enjoy your sex together.
2007-03-15 13:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by cmira4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down man, a woman likes to have fun on her own sometimes... just as you do.
anyway, you have the wrong section, this is how it goes on LGBT answers (as far as most lesbians go)
women
women
women
toys
more women
hands
can't see men in that equation...
2007-03-15 13:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Fashionista 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something else seems to be too huge as clearly it's not your equipment.
2007-03-15 13:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Grist 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In answer to your original question: It depends on the man.
2007-03-15 13:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two really need to talk - preferably with a counselor.
2007-03-15 13:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by Skeff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer women.
2007-03-15 13:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by FTW 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, I prefer my girlfriend. not all women like "toys," or men.
2007-03-15 16:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for all women. I'm a lesbian and TOYS-R-US
2007-03-15 13:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont be bothered she just wants to experiment with you
2007-03-16 18:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋