Ok I have been talking to my friends boyfriend for about a week now...it will be two weeks on Monday. Just today he emailed me and said that he liked me. And i asked him what he meant.Cuz I didn't knoww if he meant by us just being friends or something more. And he said the other way. So I said that I'm supposing that he likes me the same way he likes his girlfriend.And he said yes. So what should I do. My friend is really great to me and I really dont want to lose her after everything she has done for me.I mean I want to tell her but I'm afraid that she won't believe me and say that I'm lying and that her boyfriend would never say that to another girl. So I really need help......What should I do?
p.s- plz no stupid answers or anything b/c I'm trying to get this worked out so that I wont worry about it tomorrow. Thank you!!
2007-03-15 12:43:21 · 6 answers · asked by .Forever Young. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont like him....I'm not even friends w/ him...but hes coming to me instead of her....thats where I'm trying to get to....I dont know what I should do w/ him if hes coming to me instead of going to his girlfriend.
2007-03-15 12:53:13 · update #1
Show her the e-mail.If she still doesn't believe you there is not much else you can do.
2007-03-15 12:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by softy74501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you were talking to him on the phone getting closer to him you had to know what you were doing. The butterflies in your stomach you get when you talk to him are not worth losing your best friend.
You have dug yourself quite a hole there, good luck trying to climb out of it.
You may get the guy & be with him a month or 2, but you will probably lose a best friend that could have been with you for life.
2007-03-15 12:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, i'm basically in the same exact position. As much as i wanted to tell my friend, i couldnt. I felt that it would brake her heart and that somehow she would be so mad, she would blame it all on me even though her bf was into me. Id just try to ignore him, or only say hi, because the more you talk to him, the more he'll probably end up liking you. So i know it sounds bad, but just dont tell her.
2007-03-15 12:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you should say to her or if you should say anything at all, but you definitely should stop talking to the bf all togehter. Don't be friendly with him at all.
2007-03-15 12:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chicks before di cks . Don't ever choose him over your bestie. Wait is she your bestie?! girls are always bitchy so becareful if you choose him cause things might get hard for you.
Good luck, and I hope you make the right decision!
2007-03-15 12:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't mess your friend around.
2007-03-15 12:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by toomuchpain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋