I've known my best friend for over 6 years. I've always considored her my best friend, but I don't know if I've always been hers. She makes plans with other friends a lot but not with me very often. I don't want to seem like all in her face, but I just want her to know that she can trust me and have her actually invite me places. (She has a hard time with trusting people) I've told her over and over that I would never repeat anything she tells me or even judge her on anything, and yet I'm not sure if she even believes me. Is there anything I can do so she knows she can come to me for anything?
2007-03-15 12:38:27 · 7 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A best friend is someone who is always there for you and trusts you with the biggest secret of her life. A best friend talks to you about all her problems, and are always talking to eache other and make plans together. It's ok to have other friends and to hang out with them, but you need to sit down and talk about what is going on. Sometimes even best friends need time alone with other friends. Good Luck!
2007-03-15 12:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by I ♥ Switchfoot MORE!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to tell you the truth, you never know what goes around in other peoples head, and maybe the fact that you are not making it clear to her that shes you Best Friend is what makes her go hang out with other people more than you. If she had problems trusting people, she would stcuk to those who are closer to her, like You for example. I dont mean tu hurt youyr feelings , or to destry the image that you have of your friend, but I think that this girl doesnt want to spend time with u, and doesnt want to share personal or ANY matters with you, and thats why she told you that she "cant trsut pleople". i think you should find yourself a better friend, because it sounds like you are a really kind person, and its not fare for u to care so much about somebody who couldnt care less if u were uninvited to go out with her. if she doesnt think about u when its time to go out and have fun with the rest of ehr friends, then You are not HER friend at all. SORRY
2007-03-15 12:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by v.n.d <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your best friend for 6 years , she is your best acquaintence for 6 years. Some people do not change no matter what you do. If she makes plans with other people a lot and you are not included, then DUH, get the message, you are not her best friend. Being friends with someone is not necessarily a two way street.
2007-03-15 12:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told her that you see her as your best friend. Then just be there when she needs you, she might start opening up a little more. Tell her how you feel about your friendship.
2007-03-15 12:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you keep telling her over and over, maybe she feels as if your pushing her.... just ease up.. when she is ready she will open up to you... just continue to be by her side and a good friend and eventually it will happen..
2007-03-15 12:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Samara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is prove it to her. a best friend is a friend for life. so be there for her. and best of luck to you.
2007-03-15 12:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by tweed801 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can relate to you...it feels so depressing isn't it...and sometyms ur kinda pissed off...
well you know wat i did...i looked for another frend to hang out with...and it felt better...but i promised to myself that i'm still gonna be around if he needs me...
there willl come a time that she'll recognize you as her best friend
2007-03-15 17:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by ajaarmoens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋