The guy I had sex with and his parents are saying that there is no way that it can be his baby, but my doctor told me that blood tests are accurate 6-7 days after conception and the last time I had sex prior to this was in Novemeber of 2006. I told them this and they are still insisting that I am lying and that I am just trying to pin my pregnancy on him. I was just wondering if anybody could give me some advice on how to deal with them?
2007-03-15 12:26:18 · 8 answers · asked by ashley b 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
If he is over 18 and you are too, then screw his parents It's between you and him.
2007-03-15 12:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Medic Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one way it could be answered would be to have an ultrasound. The ultrasound would give you an idea of when you got pregnant - and if it was or was around the time you had sex with this guy. The only other way would be after the baby is born to do a paternity test. Is this guy your boyfriend? Why did you have a blood test to begin with?
2007-03-15 19:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that a blood test is only accurate 10 days past ovulation. Wait till the baby is born and have a dna test. Don't worry about it till its born...save yourself the lies from them and them calling you a liar and move on with the pregnancy.
2007-03-16 19:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um im sorry but it really doesnt sound like it could be his baby maybe it could but i never heard of someone finding out so early but if what ur saying is the truth get a dna test when the baby is born and shove it in their faces i know how they feel and wht they are thinking but u your self know what happened and even if they dont believe you as long as you know then your fine tell them to give u a lie detector test or something hope everything sorts out for u and if he is over 18 and he is acting liek this going to his parents and not takin responsabilty for what he did then u dont need him really just somehow get proof and rub it in their faces
2007-03-15 19:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by la colombiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the truth and to be honest there is no way to deal with them all you can do is pray an hope they come around because they already have in there mind that there son is not the father nothing is going to change that unless there son admits to it ,and you don't know what there son told them. and the only way for them to believe is through a blood test and right now it's to early so pray hold on to god have faith and everything will be ok and please if your mom is in your life listen to her and stay close to her ,even though they get on our nerves they love us and wants whats best for us.
2007-03-15 19:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know that if he doesn't step up right now then when the baby comes you will get a paternity test and when it is proven to be his child he will have to pay child support and back child support for when you were pregnant! let him know that you didn't expect to get pregnant by him but it just happened and if he isn't going to be man enough to take responsibility then he isn't worth having around you are your child! good luck!
2007-03-15 19:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can show them the test answers and just do that.
2007-03-15 19:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Magui 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DNA test? I think that would be the test to prove or disprove.
2007-03-15 19:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by Proud Nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋