is my friend going down the wrong path?

Question

im 13 and so is my friend, but she honestly can pass as a 16 yr old (she is really developed)

she is going to go over to someones house tommorow and have sex for the first time....i told her not to but she says its fine and that her bf will use a condom

i have a felling she will get pregnat but idk what to do..

Answer 1

It doesn't matter whether or not she can get pregnant... It matters that she's 13 about to have sex. That's a grown up move, and unless she's ready to handle the responsibility and the consequences that can go with sex (pregnancy, an STD, or a love-'em-and-leave-'em guy), she should wait.

She's going to make her own choices. Although she probably won't get pregnant, there's a good chance that she WILL get hurt and her name will be run through the mud at school by the guys who think that she's easy.

Answer 2

i would talk to your mom about it. she might get mad for you telling someone but she is way to young to be having sex. she should be on birth control or something. you mom might say that she wants to call and talk to your friends mom, so don't be surprised if she asks for her number. but your right she could still get pregnant, and i would just talk to your mom and see what your mom says about it. ask your mom what you should do to try and prevent it from happening. if that fails then you have to let her make her own mistakes. another thing you can do is ask her if she is ready for a baby. when she asks you why you would say that, tell her b/c anyone who is ready to have sex is saying they are ready for a baby! good luck and i hope this helps!

Brandie

Answer 3

u should tell an adult! your friend might hate u for it but at least she wont make a mistake she will regret very soon. seriously tell some one before something really bad hapens!!!

Answer 4

yes she is i dont care how old she could pass for thats dumb and she shouldnt be doing what she is doing she is gonna get a bad name and so will u because ur her friend