plz help me! last month i went to a party and drank a little, well i remember going into a room with my boyfriend alone but thats it! i wake up in my bed felling fine. then the next week i felt stomach pains and started eating helthier and thats not normal for me! and two weeks after that i felt a little sluggish! and now i beginning to get fat in the stomach area but i haven't been to a doctor yet b/c i don't want my parents to know! im only 14 and a 1/2 and im catholic im not sopposed to have sex till after im married and till im around 24!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!so, wut do you think????
2007-03-15 12:21:36 · 21 answers · asked by ♥Hot•Babe♥ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Ask your boyfriend what happend and if you guys had sex. then after that either don't have sex or go get put on birth control, and another word of adivce STOP DRINKING! your too young to be drinking! maybe you should think about what could happen to you when you do drink. You could get someone who slips something into your drink and the next thing you know you got all of these guys doing what is called gang banging you and you can't stop them b/c your either to drunk or to drugged up! i'm not going to be easy on you b/c i know ppl who were older then you and had this happen to them. you need to think about what could happen to you when you drink and when you have sex as well! good luck and i hope this helps!
2007-03-15 12:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Boyce 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Get a pregnancy test and take it. Take two if you have to, one right away and one a day or two later just to be sure. Then depending on that tell your boyfriend what's up and make a plan on how you're going to tell your parents. If both tests turn out to be negative that doesn't mean you're not pregnant, but you may not be and something may be wroung with you. So go see a doctor. I have no clue where you're from, but I know that in california (where I'm originally from.) there are free clinics that you can go to to get birthcontrol. Find out if there is anything like that where you live and get something that will help protect you from something like this happening again. Also, chances are that if this place gives out birth control for free you can also get pregnancy tests, the morning after pill, A pap, and whatever else you can think of here for free. Most of these places are confadential too. That means they won't contact your parents, unless you ask them to.
So try to be more careful and protect yourself from things like unwanted pregnancy and STDs by atleast using a condom. I was late for almost two months once when I was in high school and it was the most nerve rackng thing ever. Espechally when my boyfriend, who I thought loved me, told me I could just get an abortion. You shouldn't have to experiance that at such a young age, so protect yourself. You're the only one that can make choices for you.
2007-03-22 17:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Katie E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a test and take it. You don't have to do it at home, you can even do it at the store. I don't think you are pregnant. Have you had sex before this?? Also, why are you drinking at 14 1/2?? Hasn't anyone told you that drinking alcohol this young can stop brain development? That's beside the point though. You are probably just getting ready to start your period. You are probably noticing the symptoms of PMS more this time because you are concerned about it. Have you missed a period? That's the next question. If you haven't, then you probably have nothing to worry about. You can go to planned parenthood and get a test done. They are totally confidential and your parents don't have to know that you went. I'm sure you are safe, but get a test or go to planned parenthood if you are worried. Good luck!!!
2007-03-15 12:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by odd duck 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There is a possiblity that you are pregnant or you could be over reacting. First you need to be sure, you can get a pregnancy test from a drug store or seek a planned parenthood clinic (you won't need your parents). Once you find out the truth, will determine your fate. If you are you will definately need to speak to your parents. on the other hand if you aren't pregnant, consider yourself lucky and chop this up as a lesson learned. That means don't get in this situation again. You are a young lady who sounds like she doesn't want to dissappoint her parents and you know the you are far to young for sex and drinking especially when it gets so excessive that you don't remember what really happened. But you must find out and for now on either way be more careful. you know better so try not to submit to the moment and do better.
2007-03-15 12:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lele78 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you only drank a LITTLE you should be able to remember something. sounds funny that you remember going into the room and thats it. what were you thinking? you wouldnt be showing or gaining weight in just two weeks. your best bet is a go to a planned parenthood or get a home prgnancy test and take it. EPT is the best. sooner or later your parents will find out. ( if you are ) i hope for your sake you arent, and then when you get the :urge:....USE PROTECTION. BETTER YET, DONT DO IT, YOURE TOO YOUNG. good luck.
2007-03-15 12:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by privateone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sort of sounds like it. I don't permit stealing, but if you're embarrassed to get a pregnancy test, than take one. You can go into their bathroom, use it, then just donate money at the store when your finished so you're not really stealing and contributing to a good cause. Also ask your boyfriend if you had sex or not. He'll tell you. I wish you the best of luck. A friend.
2007-03-23 06:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by LISA STEWART R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll find out sooner or later. You need to purchase a home pregnancy test or go to the doctor. You need to know if youre pregnant or not. I know it' s hard to tell your parents if you think you're pregnant because I've experienced the same thing. My boyfriend was the one who told mine and she was perfectly understanding. She wasn't mad or anything
2007-03-21 21:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldn't drink in the first place,Did you talk to your boyfriend? If nothing happened why do you worry?? Get a pregnancy test at the pharmacy and you know for sure.
2007-03-23 11:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have missed your period you need to go to the Doctor.
They have Doctor/Patient confidentuality. Get it checked out.
And if you are not then chop this up as a lesson learned.
You need to focus on education and being a teenager.
Dont go messing your life up now, you are so young.
2007-03-23 06:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by I am woman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off I'd ask my boyfriend what exactly happened and i wouldn't start to worry till your late on your period then take a test. you can go to your local planned parenthood and take a test there for free and no one ever has to know about it and good luck to you. i hope you learned a lesson through all this make good decisions cuz you can never take them back
2007-03-21 09:35:54 · answer #10 · answered by Nance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋