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plz help me! last month i went to a party and drank a little, well i remember going into a room with my boyfriend alone but thats it! i wake up in my bed felling fine. then the next week i felt stomach pains and started eating helthier and thats not normal for me! and two weeks after that i felt a little sluggish! and now i beginning to get fat in the stomach area but i haven't been to a doctor yet b/c i don't want my parents to know! im only 14 and a 1/2 and im catholic im not sopposed to have sex till after im married and till im around 24!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!so, wut do you think????

2007-03-15 12:21:17 · 26 answers · asked by ♥Hot•Babe♥ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

26 answers

Well if you had sex then yes you could be, take a test.

2007-03-15 12:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by usmcvalle 2 · 0 0

Well first things first, how many days late are you on your period? If you are late then your next step is to try and take a home pregnancy test, if that comes back positive try going to a pregnancy clinic (planned parenthood works really good, they are totally confidential). If that comes back positive then you are going to have some hard choices to make, that are totally up to you! Believe me, I have had many "close calls" and I thought I was pregnant and I really wasn't, I started eating healthy and stuff, but come to find out it was all in my head because I was worrying to much. There is also the possibility that you might be late on your period if you stress a lot, I have missed tons of periods from stress. Just take a deep breath and everything will work out, I'm sure your parents will help you!

2007-03-15 12:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by carrie l 1 · 0 0

Well, this is a hard one, you should go to the store and without your folks knowing buy a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant then tell your parents. It's ok, the same thing happened to me when I was 16 and I'm fine! Also did you get your period in the last month??? Just don't worry It's totally fine!

2007-03-15 12:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by line writer 3 · 0 0

i think u shouldnt be going to parties or having sex at 14! your too young and there is many responsibilities to having sex! and also, since u are catholic, as am i, you are going aginst the morals of the catholic church and probably your parents! get yourself checked up asap so you can discuss the options if you are pregnat with your parents and boyfriend. baby, you are only human so u make mistakes, but please be more careful next time. if you are engaing in sexual activity wear protection! as i said, im catholic and i lost my virginity at 15 becuase i was at a party and given a date rape drug! and i regret every going to any parties. now im am 17 and with someone i really love and yes we have been having sex. but we use protection and i take birth control! it is against my church because they want females to reamin abstient until they are married. but like i said, i was lucky to find someone i love and who loves me. we have been togather so long! baby girl, find someone you love when your old enough to know what love really is. good luck and god bless

2007-03-15 12:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by Time is of the Essence 3 · 0 0

Get a home pregnancy test, your boyfriend should remember what happened and he should be aware of how did things happened.
Good luck on this one, and for the next one, don't drink if you can't handle it, you are only 14, you will have plenty of time to get waisted later on... Enjoy your age, you are just a kid and later on you will be hoping to be a kid again and will be to late... god luck honey !!

2007-03-15 12:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

K first of all u need to talk to your boyfriend about this...then you have to tell your parents even if you are scared. Then secdual an appointment to see the family doctor and get a pregnancey test done.

2007-03-15 12:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by angel5469ca 1 · 0 0

If your BF had sex with you when you were drunk, it is considered rape, as drunk people cannot consent to sex. This would be equally unwelcome for your parents, but they'd probably have more pity for you. Be prepared for an enormous legal hassle if you claim this, though.
It's best to tell your parents. They might surprise you. When my niece got pregnant at 15 by an African American kid, my whole family rallied to help her.

2007-03-15 12:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I doubt it. You would not begin to show any tummy action that soon. You are probably just overeating from anxiety. Go buy a pregnancy test and ease your mind. And don't have unprotected sex again. That is just stupid

2007-03-15 12:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by pwernie 3 · 0 0

if you dont have morning sickness, which usually starts about the first month of pregnancy, then you aren't. you should be throwing up.. and you wouldn't be gaining wait so fast. but he is your boyfriend, and you should be able to trust him that he would practice safe sex, specially if you werent all there. but you can always go get a pregnancy test before going to a doctor. good luck.. i hope you aren't. but you should start to use a condom from now on everytime.

2007-03-15 12:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by brrritani 2 · 0 1

i dont think the symptoms or signs of becoming pregnanat appear in such a short duration. so its better if u see a doctor at the earliest. and be careful while drinking.

2007-03-15 12:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by msm1876 1 · 0 0

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