how come when i get in a rhythm (really going) he change into something different and knock me all off wack -- right when i'm about to bust? doesn't he want me to? he does this often too - i get going pretty good then BAM he flips me over, etc. why would a guy keep doing this.....
2007-03-15 11:54:12 · 10 answers · asked by mariah s 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
fyi - i didn't say he shouldn't change positions EVER...i said he does it at the wrong time....
2007-03-15 12:04:01 · update #1
because guys like to get off. unless consious of it. him getting off is all that will matter. talk woman. a fella doesn't know if you don't speak up. we can't read minds like you all seem to think we can
2007-03-15 12:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he has been watching way too much porn, or he just isn't conscious to the fact that you are almost there. Talk with him about it, it's the only way he will know how you are feeling about the situation.
2007-03-15 13:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some guys, sex is just masturbating with someone else's body. They're never conscious of their partner's arousal or rhythm. You need to communicate with him about this.
2007-03-15 12:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some guys get uncomfortable after a period of time..
they either change positions, or feel the pain.. i.e. cramps in the legs..
tell him your close and hopefully it should boost his confidence to keep going..
2007-03-15 11:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by 18/M/Scotland 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes we can't read your mind, If your liking it tell us not to move or that you really enjoy that position...
2007-03-15 12:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Robert D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are we supposed to know?
ask him!
tell him your problem... if you want to call it that. a lot of guys like to move around like that. it keeps it interesting and fun... sex isn't just about the orgasm
2007-03-15 12:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by ♥sweet♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We're pretty dumb sometimes when it comes to love making. TELL HIM what you like and when.
Have fun, we do!
2007-03-15 12:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did ya tell him? I guess I would hang on for her in that case
2007-03-15 11:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha.
2007-03-15 13:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys are pretty much clueless. You have to tell them. My hubby has done this to me several times..frusterating eh?
2007-03-15 12:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by phxchik07 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋