I had a beautiful g/f , we was together for 4 years..but we broke up before 2 years and now her sister called me, and told me "she's getting married in July"..give me ideas about what to do..tell her how much i need her or just say to her "wish you happy days"?? or u have another ideas...?
2007-03-15 11:43:59 · 12 answers · asked by A. H. Mukhaimer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let it go! She is your ex for a reason and it's time to move on. If she wanted to be with you, she wouldn't be marrying another guy. Save yourself the embarrassment and get on with your life.
2007-03-15 12:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Fireanddesir 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you like to marry her?
There must have been a reason why you broke up in the first place. Are you sure that you would like to get back together with her? When you look back at the past, its easy to wear rose tinted spectacles and imagine it to be flawless.
I think you should speak with her if you can...meet up for a coffee and have a chat. If you want to, tell her how you feel about her and see if she feels the same. If she does, happy days. If not, at least you will know that you tried.
2007-03-15 11:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree which comprise your hubby. you nevertheless have emotions for him and additionally you're actually not pleased with you married existence. Why do no longer you in basic terms circulate on and price what you have now as a replace of pinning for a lost love. Make your marriage paintings to the perfect as a replace, initiate by feeling chuffed, you have a valuable husband if he did no longer get indignant once you advised him you're hurting coz your ex is marrying.
2016-10-02 04:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on alot.
1) do you still love her
2) does she still love you..
lets start with 2 first since its the easiest... If she wants to marry this other guy and she doesnt love you.. wish her good luck and move on with your life buddy cause it's all you can do.
1) if you still love her.. and your not sure about her wanting the marriage.. find someway to get to her heart and find out the awnser to that question.
It would take all day to really type all the advice on this question because its just so broad. you really need to be honest with yourself and evaluate her before you start evaluating yourself...cause without her on your side there is no use stressing over how you feel about it. you cant change her mind and if you did it probably wouldnt last and she would blame you when she relised she made a mistake...Good Luck,
2007-03-15 11:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by gadrmrboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go, don't think about it and move on.
Find another girl friend and focus all your love and energy on her.
If that doesn't work run naked through the chapel screaming "don't do it I have the equipment", If that doesn't work well you have 2 to 6 years of prison to think over your mistakes.
Good luck
2007-03-15 12:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by Chiprat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if she looks like Pamela Anderson, for God's sake man, suck it up and get some pride! Never let a woman know that she hurt you and never let her see you grovel or be undignified. If you see her, just smile, nod politely and move on. Trust me, you'll feel better about yourself later.
2007-03-15 12:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta look at wedding singer with adam sandler dude..or maybe what about ben?(its a show on abc) but if shes getting married then there is nothing you can do..
2007-03-15 12:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why care? If she wanted to be with you she would be there. Move on and get over it.
2007-03-15 12:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be that guy who comes to the wedding and stops it ! how exciting and romantic too.
2007-03-15 11:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by chemicalbrothers13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember there exs for a reason. and when u remember that reason. u will think better him than me.
2007-03-15 11:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋