Hi. i need help ! Did anyone ever feel like your jealous of your best friend ? Whats happening with me, is that i met my best friend cavelle last year, and we were the best of friends. This year, we are still best friends, and now are on this day. BUT in october there was a new girl who came in and she is now my best friend too (her names melissa) But lately i have been feeling that i am jealous that melissa and cavelle are coming best friends, more and more by the minute they hang out. Its so wierd, like when my other friends talk to cavelle i dont care, but when melissa talks/hangs with her, i hate it and feel jealousy. its so wierd. Did anyone ever feel like that before !?
2007-03-15 11:38:42 · 4 answers · asked by Allie ツ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and yes, i do sometimes feel very left out, like cavelle likes melissa more than me ! and when they ask eachother "wanna hang out" right in front of me :(
2007-03-15 11:51:33 · update #1
i did! but i've just b learnt to ignore it - i can't help it if they're mates! i ain't gonna stop them! yeah true it gets to me but you just gotta learn to get on with your life. Basing this on what others have told me you normally lose touch with your best friend when you're older and they're hardly likely to get you anywhere in the world are they? so live and let live! live life to full love everyone even if they're b****es and B******s and you'll go places! and have fun as well!!!!
2007-03-15 11:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird. Natural. You had a bond with your first friend.. first. You feel left out possibly? Having friendships in threes tends to have these problems. Solution I can think of is to make time for both of them... and keep up on it.
Everyone makes their own special connection... they have their own connection. You can just be happy for them, and happy you have both of them in your life. I can assure you they don't like you any less.
2007-03-15 11:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by LifeIsPassion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive felt that before and it felt like i was being left out bad. I just iteruptted them sometimes but they keep on hanging out. Dont worry you will get used to the feeling.I comes natrually.
2007-03-15 12:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also have a best friend and she seems jealous..because my other friend has helped me out a lot and my best friend feels useless.
by i 2 get jealous because she has fun with other friends.
and then we end up saying negative things about ourselves..
talking bad about yourself might help u 2 be more closer..
but it also migt tear u guys apart.
so be careful with wat u say.... just say that u love ur best friend a lot!!!!
2007-03-15 11:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by VA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋