help please help me?

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problem is our girls who are the same age stopped getting along and her daughter started talking about mine behind her back at school. they both have the same teachers school everything. well i confronted my friend about this and she stated she will take care of it. problem is recently her daughter went out of state and sent my daughter some nasty mean emails while she was visiting her friends. my friedn her mother tells me it was not her daughter who sent the email her daughters friend whom she was visiting stole her daughters password. but the problem is this kid there blaming itt on has no idea about my daughter and how would she no all the details of what was said in the email. i explained that to my friend and told her her daughter was involved there is no way that kid hundreds of miles away would know anything about my daughter unless by her's and she point blankly told me to loose her ****** number...does this make any damn sense? what do you make of this

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Yes, it makes perfect sense. I had a situation like that happen in my life. Not me personally. But my step-sister, who would of play'd the part of your daughter, ran into a little problem with one of my step-mothers friends. The fact was that my Step-Mom wasn't really good friends with her and held her own insecurities about what kinda person the mother was. Ether way you are dealing with this friend of yours insecurities about raising her daughter. Its not easy as I'm pretty sure you'll agree, to bring up a child in this age and time. On top of that it isn't easy raising ourselves. That aside I'm not suprise that her frist instinct for you confronting her on this was, anger. She doesn't want anyone calling her on her lack of communication with her daughter, espacilly a friend. I'm pretty sure she doesn't see that as the problem but the fact that this situation went the way it did shows something is a mist. One is that her daughter has a habit of hiding confrontation. This is usually a learned technique. Shoot our parents are were we get most of our social survival techniques. Second it sounds like her daughter is a lair and moms has made a habit out of being a believer... But it all shows a lack of emotional maturity. Chances are this isn't the only thing questionable that your friend has done, or else you really havn't been that close to her. It only makes sense. The real fix to this problem is in your guy's daughters relationships, but I don't know enough about the transgressions to say if your daughter can ever be any help to the other. Because your friends is missing some major steps on her road to making her little girl into a women. The only person who could set her strait on that is her own daughter.....