drama help please...?

Question

heres a little about me. I HATE DRAMA. now i have some drama in my highschool freshmen life that i need help with.

my EX good good friend, said little bitchy statements. last night when we were arguning on AIM, i told her what pissed me off, what she said. and she was like "wow, wtf, get a sunece of humor i was just joking" okay first off, she said pretty mean stuff. "your a *****" does that sound like joking? so now , we argued last night and i ******* hate her. but then shes spreading lies and **** about me, to make me sound a horrible friend. shes just saying i called her a *****, when really I DID THROUGH THE ARGUMENT, i mean come on, she call me way worse. we use to be clothes and sh es like in all of my classes. shes in p2,p6, bus, lives 5 mins away.

how do i solve this problem? do i confront her and tell her to back off or leave me alone? do i just ignore her and be above?
what i need help plz. i serioslly hate drama, and i need your help...

by the way, it wasnt in just 1 aim conversation, it was throughout the school year.... from period to period

Answer 1

You just better tell miss thang, that she eeds to get a really big aditude adjustment and you have to tell her to just really and truthfully GET A LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Is there another friend you have that would be considered a "neutral" person by both of you? Could you invite both of these people to sit down somewhere after school to talk about things? The "neutral" person would just be there to kind of listen and nothing else. You could calmly tell this other girl that you really don't want to have all this bad stuff going on for the next few years in highschool and is there not any way you could sort things out so both of you don't have to go thru all this drama every time you see each other? Be adult and calm and don't resort to swearing or name calling. If she can't discuss the matter maturely, then tell her that you're sorry you couldn't work things out and just leave with your "neutral" person . At least you have tried and there is no way she will be able to bad mouth you any further because you had someone there with you who was a witness to the true way that things happened during your meeting.

Answer 3

as hard as this may be the best thing to do is just let go! don't live your life fighting!! If you really want to be above her the best revenge is happiness! find a new friend and show her shes not causing you any problems! Thatll be a like akick in the *** and shell aventually back off

Answer 4

Why abuse yourself? Obviously you have a tender heart, and if you act the same way in response... remember two wrongs don't make a right. Take back the power you have given this person by being offended by her. Find yourself something new to do for you. Get out of your pit!

Answer 5

how long have you known this so called friend? sounds like your so called friend is self centered and selfish. friends don't treat each other like that. if you still wish to understand your friendship with this person then confront her with a third party, if not, let her go and go on with your life. too much drama makes for an unhappy person. hint hint. your friend is the one unhappy, and wishes to make everyone else around her the same.

Answer 6

just ignore her confronting her gives her the satisfaction of knowing she's getting under your skin.. rise of above her your so much better... and who ever is actually stupid enough to believe what she says either doesn't know you or is getting something from her.. so just be your self and also the better person let her comments roll off your back and then she'll become aggravated and either confront you or aggravate someone else... good luck.

Answer 7

hi, same friend problem here.
um...i think you shouldn't hang with her anymore.
just ignore her.
because, friends aren't people that you don't like.

Answer 8

ignore her