i need help dont know what to do!?

Question

i have a best friend, and it seems like shes holding things back from me, we have been best friends for 1 year, and she finally told me that she was bi .... and i have a boyfriend we been together for 2 months, and shes trying to get us broken up, everyone is telling me that shes telling everyone else thats she likes me and want to be my girlfriend ( IM NOT BI) but i have a boy friend, and if she was really a good friend she would want to see me happy instead of bringing up brian's ( my boyfriend) ex - girlfriends 24/7. what should i do, should i leave her alone because i dont need the drama., or should i stay her friend, and tell her how i feel , for the 100th time.... please help : (

Answer 1

If you have told her 100 times already, telling her again probably won't do much good. I'd tell her you don't want to associate with her anymore because you feel she is not a true friend and then stay away from her. You are right, a true best friend will want to see you happy, not make you miserable! Good luck! :)

Answer 2

Yikes! That's a little creepy. I'm glad you accepted her, but its weird that she won't leave you alone. You are right, if she was really your friend, she wouldn't try to break you up. I would talk to her one last time. Go somewhere where its just the two of you and explain that you want things to go back to the way they were. Tell her you accept that she is bi, and its not a big deal to you, but that she can't try to take you away from the person you like. If she can't handle this, it's time to stay away from her.

Answer 3

If you're not very comfortable with your Best-Friend's behaviour, first of all you should straighten up things whats going on both of you, and if She's agreeble and respect your openion, stick to the friendship. If not theire's no choice, and you got to walk away from her, and I hope eith out breaking up friendships, and will find Peace and understanding, with out Friends using wrong way, only for theire purpose. If you have a Boy-friend, I think you better move on with Him. Keep the Friendship with your Girl-Friend with dignity, respect, and understanding.

Answer 4

just sit down one-on-one and tell her all of that. Tell her what you have heard and that you don't want to break up with your boyfriend. And if she denies that she's trying to break you guys up, then just explain to her that bringing up the ex-girlfriend is bothersome to you. If she's a true friend, then she will understand and stop doing those things, if not, then tell her you'd rather not be friends anymore

Answer 5

Hey, okay first you need to talk to her! Thats the #1 thing is talk to her. Ask her questions and then ask her if shes trying to brake you and ur bf up. kay then if she said she was trying to do that talk to her and tell her that ur not bi but you'll support her. and be there for her and tell her that your just her friend and want to be liek that. And if you really liked ur bf you would even brake up with him and you would listen to those people.

Answer 6

seems she likes you more than a friend

tell her she needs to execpt your feelings about this

or you can no longer be her friend.

yes she would want to see you happy if really a friend

or even if she wants and cares about you, she should still respect how you feel if she really does.

Answer 7

stay her friend and be up front with her. don't turn real friends on like hot and cold water , this world is cold enough don't ad to it . good luck .

Answer 8

Tell her if she can't accept you're not interested in anything other than friendship, you'll stop hanging out with her.

Answer 9

tell her to stop it caus its not kool
if she doesnt find a new friend shes not worht it
I don't she is any way but she could be doin it caus shes jealous

Answer 10

If she is of that type! try your best to show her that you can not ever! ever! ever! accept the game that she is planing to play with you. That`s ```````````.............yaki!