i really dont know what to do todays been hell some girl took a picture of me photoshoped it added some form of caption and set it as her myspace default. she really popular and its been spread round really fast ive been gettig grief all day like really badly no one will tell me what it was that she did but aparently the police could have been involved im getting laughed at down all the coridors and on my way home she was planning on putting posters up all over school
it was her friend that told the head of year cos she thought it was getting out of hand
this is a girl i dont really speak to she s popular and granted im not but i dont understand what i could have done to deserve it
i really dont know what i can do i cant face tommorrow at school
2007-03-15 11:00:54 · 28 answers · asked by bitter sweet 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
going to school tomorrow is the best thing you can do because if you skip, she could be saying more stuff about you and you wouldnt be there to defend yourself. stand up for yourself and just hang out with your friends because you dont need to make fun of someone else in order for people to like you.
2007-03-15 11:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Just hold your head up high and show that you are more mature than she is!
If anybody laughs then just smile and shake your head in a pitying way! You haven't done anything wrong so don't let immature imbeciles make you miserable. Laugh it off-if she doesn't get the reaction she wants then it will all go away in a matter of no time! If you make a big deal out of whatever it is then she gets the end result she obviously desired.
Just remember-you are obviously a much better person than she is,she won't be popular for long if you don't react to it!
2007-03-15 12:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be OK. Go into school tomorrow and hold your head up high. If you don't seem bothered by it, it will all be forgotten about really quickly, especially as it's Friday tomorrow so they'll have the weekend to forget about it. If you don't go back tomorrow it will be even harder on Monday. The fact that her friend told the Head of Year is a really good thing - it shows that she's not going to be manipulated by this other girl and that she's prepared to stand up for what she know's is right - if you get a chance to speak to her alone, try just saying a quick 'thanks' you never know you could end up being friends. If you don't fancy that don't worry, just stay with your own friends tomorrow and don't let anyone else guess that you're worried by it.
2007-03-15 11:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by KB 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.. lets see. i used to have a similar problem, only NOBODY in school at all used to talk to me. I know its difficult babes you might feel low and that. I think you should go to school and the best thing to do is stand up to her, get her on her own and.. PUNCH her lights out.. ok maybe not maybe you should talk to her. the main reason she might be doing this is for attention, to be even more popular and because she is jelous of you. Either ignore it, or tell her something. Tell your parents, nothing to worry about there here to help or speak to a teacher or the principle. School used to be my worst nightmare, but sooner or later people will forget about it and start rumours or trouble somebody else. thats school for you, full of immature little children that never think twice, keep your head up babes, dont listen to what people say because by the end of the day its all hearsay not the truth. my best advice is tell your teacher/principle or parents. chin up hunny :)
2007-03-15 12:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by someone24000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing! You don't need to worry about tomorrow, you've done nothing wrong. Go to school with your head held high, and that silly cow will get her comeuppance soon enough.
You should go to your year head or school principal and complain about what she's done and how she's made you feel - she has no right in the world to do this kind of thing, it's pure bullying, and she should be brought to task for it.
Let us know how you get on tomorrow, and really, stand up for yourself and don't let her get away with this behaviour. You're every bit as important as she is, and you don't deserve this.
Good luck.
2007-03-15 11:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by RM 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you can face school tomorrow, your better than her.
she may be "popular" and thinks shes funny but wasting all her time arsing about on myspace, being an all round b*tch and photoshopping at school isnt getting her an education.
one day she will end up serving your lunch while your on your way to your dream job.
bullies get all their power from you, dont give them any... i know its hard (trust me ive been there) but if she sees you dont care... then whats the point in picking on you?
the more reaction you give her... the more fun you are.
oh.. and if she does put up any posters (not likely) then grab one and take it to your parents/teachers.... there is nothing like a bit of evidence to get her really told off!
2007-03-15 11:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by ejhedgehog 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes you can!!! YOu can go to school and laugh too. Everyone else is laughing at your expense so why can't you? I would not give this girl or anyone else for that matter the satisfaction of knowing it bothers you. Blow it off!!! She is just doing this to get a rise out of you. Show her that you are more mature than she is. I know that is easy for me to say, I don't have to face all the kids........Just laugh at it, like everyone else is........... Then what can she do??? When life gives you lemons, you make lemonade.
2007-03-15 11:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fight fire with fire, why dont you load a picture of her off of her myspace and do some wicked cut and paste, for instance, make her bald with bags around her eyes, or cut and paste her head on a prostitutes/ or transsexual body. if shes "all popular" that means shes really self conscious, then you can put it on a bullitin board and say something, like, "my best friend, isnt she pretty" if she comes up to you and talks crap the next day, just say,," what, I thought we were playing a game" act like its no big deal and people wont run with it, If people see that its really affected you, theyll bug the **** out of you all year long.
2007-03-17 17:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she may be popular at the moment, but obviously has insecurity issues and is jealous of you otherwise she wouldn't go to all this trouble! she feels threatened by your, i would imagine, natural beauty, which you have more of on the inside than her its easy to see, and on the outside too.
dont let her think shes won.
go to school.
hold your head high, feel sorry for her and her petty ways. if her friends have reported her, shes obviously made a fool of herself in front of them too, so think how stupid she feels!
i think most people at school are on your side really. tomorrow they'll be laughing at somebody else. kids are fickle like that! i remember being that age, and we were! some much more than others, like this girl you mention.
her maturity is no match for yours.
ignore her
your star shines far brighter than hers
2007-03-16 04:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by hedgewitch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to go to school and try your best to ignore any comments (I know it's hard, been there myself). If you have good friends at school ask them to do the same and stick together as a group.
BUT...if you don't go this girl has won! She will then persevere and continue bullying you because she thinks she can influence what you do.
Try talking to your tutor and/or principle (or some other teacher you feel you can speak to)
In any case, keep turning up to school, keep ignoring any comments made to you and eventually it will all blow over and this girl will give up as she's won't be getting a reaction from you. (I promise it will blow over eventually)
Good luck, and chin up!
2007-03-15 11:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by nevine1982 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a horrible experience. However, everything like this is a flash in the pan and once the novelty passes, people will forget about it. Be strong and do not let her see she has got to you. If her own friends disapprove, you have right on your side so why stay away? You have done nothing wrong.
2007-03-15 11:06:22 · answer #11 · answered by Finbarr D 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋