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like what are the pros and cons of doing this. if anyone could help it would be amazing. like right now even really good friends and my bf dont know.

2007-03-15 10:51:56 · 12 answers · asked by [[♥case-face♥]] 2 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i went out with a girl im 14 not really even coming out really just like start dating more girls.

2007-03-15 11:02:11 · update #1

12 answers

Good for you,
coming out was the best thig that ever happened to me! Good luck. Dont rub it in their faces, but be rational.
Your boyfriend might freak out.
Be aware of that.
If your friends really love you (not in a romantic way) not that there would be anything wrong with that.
*hug*
I hope it all turns out alright!
My love,
Rory
and again
*hug*

2007-03-15 11:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Rory a 1 · 0 0

How old are you? If you're still in college or younger, I'd give it a few years until you're totally positive before you go through the whole "coming out" process. If you are sure, the pro of coming out would be that you don't have to hide a part of yourself from people, including those to whom you're closest, especially if you're dating a girl. The con would be opening yourself up to prejudice. Good luck!

2007-03-15 17:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by a female 3 · 0 0

Be prepared for more pigs to come out of the woodwork, pigs "dig" bi chicks. And be prepared to catch flack from both sides, alot of straight AND homosexual people don't like "fence walkers". I for one don't have a problem with bisexuals, but I would never date a bi-sexual woman. A lot of reasons that I won't take the time and space to go into now. If you are comfortable with who you are, then be who you are no matter what others think or say, just know that there may be repercussions, for me coming out and being able to be myself was worth dealing with those repercussions.

2007-03-15 18:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly 7 · 0 0

The biggest pro is that you'll finally be honest with yourself and those around you. The biggest con is that everyone will abandon you. But tell one person at a time. You'd be surprised at how accepting most people are today about homosexuals and bisexuals, despite King George's determination to deny us marital rights.

2007-03-15 17:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sinclair 6 · 0 0

When I came out some of my friends didn't quite understand it completely, they knew what a bisexual was but they just couldn't get their heads around the fact that I was bisexual. Here's my advice to you if you encounter this same problem (this is the same thing I told my friends): Let them know that you are still the same person as you were before, it's just that they know more about you. Good luck!

2007-03-15 18:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by honeyleelove 3 · 0 0

As a chick, you'll probably get a lot more guys... but some lesbians may think that you're just like a lot of other young women who make out with chicks and play head games.

Homosexuals and heterosexuals may both accuse you of being the other... and wanting to have your cake and eat it, too.

2007-03-15 17:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4 0

At least everyone will know the true you. I guess I am curious if you have all ready planned out a girl friend. I mean you must have experiment.

2007-03-15 17:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas S 6 · 0 0

wait 4 years

2007-03-15 18:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by cweetepye 3 · 0 1

Don't believe the lie that its normal. Its not. FIght the urge. Stay straight. Do the good thing for your psyche.
Straight is good.. straight is right. Homosexuals are a plight.

2007-03-15 17:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by kent j 3 · 0 3

I Bet Your BF Would Like That... :-P

2007-03-15 17:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ur Daddy 2 · 0 4

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