Hey wat do u do if ur friend is being is acting like u dont exist anymore and being fake with u ?

Question

. so anyways heres the deal my friend of the past two years were close and homies . we wolud like hang out every other week or so.But when i moved every thing change. she never would talk to me on the phone or call me like we use to . so watch should i do? cuz i asked if were friends and she was like yeah dont wrrry i luv ya but she still act s the same . so i think she is lying. all i want is the truth nothing more nothing less. wat do u think it will take to get it out of her? i just hate it when ppl arent straight with u . so help me out here . Thanks!

Answer 1

Girl I know what you must feel like. I have a freind that moved away about 4 yrs ago and our friendship is not the same as it use to be. She has 2 kids and a hubby while , Im still single and living my life. She always tells me how much she misses me and cant wait to see me when she comes home but when she doesn I only see her maybe once. We hardly talk on the phone or email. She even thanked me over myspace for her bday card. I was like wtf is that about. I had wrote her and told her the way I felt I dont really talk to her much and the things she wants to talk about are old and not interesting. I told her that I am moving in a few yrs to florida with my other friend and will not move with her to cali like she"" expressed"". I told her that your priorites are much diffrent than mine and we have grown apart. It does phase me anymore. she gave up on the freindship so I did the say, why try when the other person is being short with you and no effort is given.

Answer 2

Yeah I am away at college and experienced some of the leaving friends in one place nad you being in another place kinda thing. Communication is very important when it comes to your relationship. Pray to God and talk to your friend!!!

Answer 3

If she's being fake then you need to let her go. You can find a nother good friend that will appreciate you.